A soul mate, a twin flame or a partner?!
I mean, if you always dreamed for someone that is preparing your breakfast every morning, takes care of you as a mother ... in fact is taking care of almost all your expectations ... what do you think you are going to meet in your love life?!
What if you are focused mainly on love and connection?!
You see, it’s all about the expectations you have, nothing more.
But what is better to have?
A soulmate, a twin flame or a partner for a life time?!
From the dogmatic point of view, how society sees this issue and also if we say the real truth, most of relations are more a partnership, than a love story.
One is taking care of making money, one is taking care of the kids, one is making the shopping, one is cleaning the house etc etc.
The list is infinite, but the problem is that i can’t find on the list “please also use some time for us as a couple, as 2 people that love each other”.
On the path of that relationship, having so many things to do, you get lost and forget that taking care of your soul is very important.
Your love life has the same importance as eating, washing your clothes, taking care of your job or of your house.
Still remembering that you have a soul that needs love, at least from time to time, is vital.
But being and also feeling lost, you totally forget what you used to say about soulmates or twin flames.
It is all happening as that, cause the paths you follow in life are making you focus more on what you have to do, not on what you love to do.
It’s a pathless path, that will never leads you to a state of joyfulness or happiness.
But it’s ok cause you’ve been told that the things are the way they are and there is nothing to do that can change the life.
And you accepted everything, in a dogmatic way, and maybe today you feel that
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
96
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
you have everything you ever wanted from life, except one little crazy thing ...
love.
I once read a beautiful quote ...”I just want to be loved by a man who never stop chasing me, even when he already has me”.
So, you believe you need to be perfect so that you have a perfect life?! Maybe not ... but you should remember that you could try it.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
97
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
What a woman wants ...
What a man really wants …
You know ... it’s important to be the right person ... at the right time.
You could even be the soulmate of that person ... but if you don’t appear at the right time ... is almost useless to hope that the story will have a happy end.
A woman thinks in a way .... and the man is thinking in a totally different way.
It happens that they are in a love story ... but want different things and actions. The love story is great ... but they don’t agree on the path that they should follow togheter ... and sooner of later choosing the path will become more important as the love itself.
But why can’t we see love as a path?!
Love could lead us to the infinite happiness, but we pay too much attention to other unimportant details.
Love has its spontaneity and its beauty.
And there is nothing to do ... but enjoy it and continue to do it on and on and on. ... what you see, what you feel ... everything is happening ... that is the journey on the path of love.
Understanding what she wants ... or what he wants ... is irrelevant.
But talking and defining, what you, as a couple want ... without any sign of selfishness or vanity from any side ... is maybe the most important thing.
It’s not him or her ... or maybe i should say his or her ego ... that we should be treated with importance ... but the couple.
If the union between the 2 souls is going to happen ... then the real path will appear to them and if not ... it just means that their meeting had other purpose. The path is actually the expression of the purpose itself, and if it looks like a pathless path ... that in fact will only reveal the emptiness of the souls .
Being togheter at the right time is extremely important ... but also being togheter at the wrong time ... it should whisper you that it’s time for a change ... and what you live today in the real life is not the life meant for you.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
98
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
She’s just a silly girl
... but she is my reflection
Imagine that everything should be perfect.
Wouldn’t it be boring?!
I think this is the main philosophy, why many couples that are in love, instead of enjoying the love story ... they also have moments that they would kill each other for silly reasons.
If you listen to them, you would laugh at what they tell you about.
You could even ask them if are talking about a cartoon serial or is about a love story, but watching them ... you see that they are really serious.
They start saying .... she did this, he did this, she doesnt really care about me, i
think he loves me because of .. etc, etc, etc.
Great love story ... silly reasons why they fight, sometimes even dailly ... but all the time they end up again togheter, because the love itself is infinite.
We have complicated minds and we dont really understand what harmony means ... and most important ... what is the real meaning of love into our lives. Today we are happy, tomorrow we are not ... but when you look deep inside ... the love is there all the time ... for him ... but also for her.
When real love exists, you will never say i totally dislike this at her or him ...
cause you actually love everything at the person from the love story.
Being in love ... means seeing only the magic.
Telling ugly things about the partener ... is silly ... you know the power of love and you also know is useless to fight with that power. Just love ... and enjoy the love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
99
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
And one day ... the pathless path takes you to the end of the story
The path to nowhere is difficult to be defined, cause it looks different for all of us. For someone could be going to work, monday to friday, from 9 am to 5 pm ... for other person could be a relationship that is never looking how it should look like. The list of examples is infinite ... but yours is the only one that really matters. And you will totally dislike to define it ... because we actually know the truth ...
but we don’t like it ... and we even try to hide it.
Basically is talking about the gap from the perfect life, that you desire, and the
life you actually have in the real life.
Reality itself looks like a path to nowhere.
Being in such a relationship will never bring you the happiness you are looking for
... but that doesn’t mean you need to follow that path forever.
And maybe accepting that any story has an end ... and that you can decide in any moment to change the direction ... from unhappiness to happiness ... is the key. You are actually the one that decides the journey of your life ... and there is no certain path that the Universe will force you to follow. But you must not worry.
Live the life in the rhythm you want ... cause one day ... the pathless path will take you to the end of the story anyway.
Everything can be seen as a life lesson ... and at the right time for you ... the right direction will appear.
Or maybe LOVE ... is a pathless path that goes to your soul ... so that you understand the whole meaning of life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
100
I mean, if you always dreamed for someone that is preparing your breakfast every morning, takes care of you as a mother ... in fact is taking care of almost all your expectations ... what do you think you are going to meet in your love life?!
What if you are focused mainly on love and connection?!
You see, it’s all about the expectations you have, nothing more.
But what is better to have?
A soulmate, a twin flame or a partner for a life time?!
From the dogmatic point of view, how society sees this issue and also if we say the real truth, most of relations are more a partnership, than a love story.
One is taking care of making money, one is taking care of the kids, one is making the shopping, one is cleaning the house etc etc.
The list is infinite, but the problem is that i can’t find on the list “please also use some time for us as a couple, as 2 people that love each other”.
On the path of that relationship, having so many things to do, you get lost and forget that taking care of your soul is very important.
Your love life has the same importance as eating, washing your clothes, taking care of your job or of your house.
Still remembering that you have a soul that needs love, at least from time to time, is vital.
But being and also feeling lost, you totally forget what you used to say about soulmates or twin flames.
It is all happening as that, cause the paths you follow in life are making you focus more on what you have to do, not on what you love to do.
It’s a pathless path, that will never leads you to a state of joyfulness or happiness.
But it’s ok cause you’ve been told that the things are the way they are and there is nothing to do that can change the life.
And you accepted everything, in a dogmatic way, and maybe today you feel that
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
96
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
you have everything you ever wanted from life, except one little crazy thing ...
love.
I once read a beautiful quote ...”I just want to be loved by a man who never stop chasing me, even when he already has me”.
So, you believe you need to be perfect so that you have a perfect life?! Maybe not ... but you should remember that you could try it.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
97
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
What a woman wants ...
What a man really wants …
You know ... it’s important to be the right person ... at the right time.
You could even be the soulmate of that person ... but if you don’t appear at the right time ... is almost useless to hope that the story will have a happy end.
A woman thinks in a way .... and the man is thinking in a totally different way.
It happens that they are in a love story ... but want different things and actions. The love story is great ... but they don’t agree on the path that they should follow togheter ... and sooner of later choosing the path will become more important as the love itself.
But why can’t we see love as a path?!
Love could lead us to the infinite happiness, but we pay too much attention to other unimportant details.
Love has its spontaneity and its beauty.
And there is nothing to do ... but enjoy it and continue to do it on and on and on. ... what you see, what you feel ... everything is happening ... that is the journey on the path of love.
Understanding what she wants ... or what he wants ... is irrelevant.
But talking and defining, what you, as a couple want ... without any sign of selfishness or vanity from any side ... is maybe the most important thing.
It’s not him or her ... or maybe i should say his or her ego ... that we should be treated with importance ... but the couple.
If the union between the 2 souls is going to happen ... then the real path will appear to them and if not ... it just means that their meeting had other purpose. The path is actually the expression of the purpose itself, and if it looks like a pathless path ... that in fact will only reveal the emptiness of the souls .
Being togheter at the right time is extremely important ... but also being togheter at the wrong time ... it should whisper you that it’s time for a change ... and what you live today in the real life is not the life meant for you.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
98
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
She’s just a silly girl
... but she is my reflection
Imagine that everything should be perfect.
Wouldn’t it be boring?!
I think this is the main philosophy, why many couples that are in love, instead of enjoying the love story ... they also have moments that they would kill each other for silly reasons.
If you listen to them, you would laugh at what they tell you about.
You could even ask them if are talking about a cartoon serial or is about a love story, but watching them ... you see that they are really serious.
They start saying .... she did this, he did this, she doesnt really care about me, i
think he loves me because of .. etc, etc, etc.
Great love story ... silly reasons why they fight, sometimes even dailly ... but all the time they end up again togheter, because the love itself is infinite.
We have complicated minds and we dont really understand what harmony means ... and most important ... what is the real meaning of love into our lives. Today we are happy, tomorrow we are not ... but when you look deep inside ... the love is there all the time ... for him ... but also for her.
When real love exists, you will never say i totally dislike this at her or him ...
cause you actually love everything at the person from the love story.
Being in love ... means seeing only the magic.
Telling ugly things about the partener ... is silly ... you know the power of love and you also know is useless to fight with that power. Just love ... and enjoy the love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
99
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
And one day ... the pathless path takes you to the end of the story
The path to nowhere is difficult to be defined, cause it looks different for all of us. For someone could be going to work, monday to friday, from 9 am to 5 pm ... for other person could be a relationship that is never looking how it should look like. The list of examples is infinite ... but yours is the only one that really matters. And you will totally dislike to define it ... because we actually know the truth ...
but we don’t like it ... and we even try to hide it.
Basically is talking about the gap from the perfect life, that you desire, and the
life you actually have in the real life.
Reality itself looks like a path to nowhere.
Being in such a relationship will never bring you the happiness you are looking for
... but that doesn’t mean you need to follow that path forever.
And maybe accepting that any story has an end ... and that you can decide in any moment to change the direction ... from unhappiness to happiness ... is the key. You are actually the one that decides the journey of your life ... and there is no certain path that the Universe will force you to follow. But you must not worry.
Live the life in the rhythm you want ... cause one day ... the pathless path will take you to the end of the story anyway.
Everything can be seen as a life lesson ... and at the right time for you ... the right direction will appear.
Or maybe LOVE ... is a pathless path that goes to your soul ... so that you understand the whole meaning of life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
100
