and in the same way ... like in a love story ... there are one million ways of saying “Give me the money” ... and actually receive the money ... or what you actually want from someone.
I am smiling ... thinking of a guy that is client and needs to pay me one thousand dollars every month.
By years .. he drives me crazy ... when it comes about payment.
I need to call him 50 times ... till he finally answers and make me the payment.
But few days ago ... i finally realized that in fact we have kind of a karmic relationship ... and it’s not that he’s driving me crazy ... but i also drive him crazy ... cause i need to call him tens of times to solve the payment issues. And realizing that ... i calmed down.
Loved the idea.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
I am not a victim anymore ... but also the aggressor ... and he becomes the victim same as i do ... from time to time. And is funny cause it took me years to understand that ...
but the question is ... how many other relationships as this one i have ... because i worked with thousands of clients over the years.
What about all the other types of relationships i have ... not just business?!
Did i chose the right way of communicating with that person?!
If you would ask me how to say i love to a woman .... i would
tell ... indeed that there are one million ways of saying it ... but even if i worked with so many clients ... i haven’t learnt the trick for getting my money in time.
So ... i sent to the guy a short movie with a beautiful lady ...
asking for money and threaten him i will send her to him. And guess what?! ... he smiled ... and finally made the payment.
I touched his heart ... and he realized he needs to pay me ... at least this time ... because i succeeded ... in a damm crazy world ... to make him smile.
No one is listening anymore today ... to anyone ... and the only way of getting what you want is to find new ways of communicating with the people around. The whole world changed.
We are different today.
The standard ways of connecting to people ... just fail.
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The dance of our emotions is a
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But now i wonder ... how do i find a way of communicating with the Universe ... to ask what i want.
.... and i want lots of things, so hope i find the trick!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
It is indeed a real art ... focusing just on ourselves ... but no one taught us that.
You see ... it’s not necessary to be number one ... but to follow your real destiny.
It’s not important to be better than the others ... and compare with them all the time ... but to be a better soul as the one you’ve been yesterday. ... that is the real evolution.
It’s funny having in my life ... kind of a friend that even if he is doing quite well in all his businesses ... and he has about 4 at the moment ... every time i meet him, usually once at 1-2 months ... he’s telling me all kind of stories about people that we know.
That one ... lost his wife that left home, because she is in love with someone else ... that one closed his shop because he was so stupid that in the end was bankrupt ... that friend from the kindergarten lost all he had at the casino etc etc. In 5 minutes i hear all what happened recently in our area ... and he knows all those details.
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The dance of our emotions is a
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I don’t need to ask anyone else about the news ... cause he will inform me with everything.
But my question is ... why he never inform me also about the positive news from our area?! ... cause i am sure that at least something positive is happening from time to time in here.
Why he is so focused on the misery of others?! ... when in fact he is actually a very successful guy ... having a beautiful family, a fancy car, lots of opportunities in his daily life ... and his businesses are running excellent. Why is he doing that?!
Well ... my dear friend is indeed practicing a non sense behavior.
And even if i see so clear the evolution of his success all the time ... i also see his obsession regarding the misery of the others ... probably as a desire of comparing himself with them ... and see a huge distance between his position and the position of the ones that are in a negative episode of their lives.
Is hard for me to understand this disease of comparing ourselves with the others around us ... and i am sure i have it too ... but i try to cure myself and compare just the me of today ... with the me of yesterday ... hoping that the me from tomorrow will always be a better one.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
You are in that ugly story ... because you wanted a part of that story, not realizing the complexity of the whole story.
... and still you see no way out of the story!
David was a businessman with a huge experience ...
especially regarding the human interactions.
He worked with so many clients ... one to one ... that after 20 years of work ... he knew more as a psychologist about how we must interact between us.
But still one day he writes me that he had enough with his business and the delays regarding the payments ... and wants as this ugly story .... just to end forever.
He was trying lots of tricks and even if i believe that through his life experiences he learnt more that i did ... regarding the human mind ... he wrote me because he saw i study the dance of our feelings and emotions.
His whole life was a balance of emotions.
In the morning ... checking his bank account he was
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happy ... one hour later he became annoyed that a client owning him money by months was not answering his phone call ... then a new client was calling saying that he signs the contract with him .... and he was happy again ... and this was happening on and on and on.
It was all a non ending story.
He was jumping from good to bad vibes ... and from bad to good vibes ... 20 times a day ... and after years of doing that ... his soul became a ... ruin.
It was like ... this was the destiny of his life ... to live in a story that brings him happiness and unhappiness in the same time ... but the frequency of all those episodes were driving him crazy.
I was smiling reading his thoughts and feelings ... not really understanding why David was not seeing the way out of this story ... even if he had a huge experience with the human beings.
It was all a decision ... but he was not ready yet for that decision ... cause he had a very strong addiction ... the one of love for money.
In so many years of business he could just decide to stop working with the customers that are not serious... and choose only the ones that respect him and have good connection with them.
And even if he knew all those things ... the love for money was much powerful ... and he agreed to continue being in a story ... that was bringing him joy but also annoyed him ... and destroyed his vibe everyday.
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... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
In fact not the clients were ruining him emotionally ... but the fact that he could not get rid of the addiction for money .... and be more selective with his customers.
Loving every penny ... came from all the directions ... was a way of saying to the Universe ... “As long as the money are coming ... i agree to pay the price for that”.
So .... even if he knew that he was paying everything with
the price of his vibe ... the decision of continuing was ... his own decision.
There was no one that could help him ... cause he just needed to cure himself of chasing every penny that was coming to his company.
The story of his business could be a nice one ... and also one of success, but he did not knew to focus just on the relationships that are bringing him a beautiful connection. He was accepting all the ones that were fucking his vibe ...
because of some extra money ... more than the ones came from the good clients ... which in fact was quite enough. Curing himself of his addiction for money was the key ... and he knew it ... but David was doing nothing about it.
He was living a silly life ... jumping from happiness to unhappiness and from unhappiness to happiness ... just like in a cartoon movie.
There was almost no advice to give to him.
It was useless ... cause he knew the answer ... and i was just replying ... “David ... why do you want to wait another 20 years to take the decision that you need to take today?!”.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
... and probably ... many of us ... we are doing the same as David ... in different areas of our lives.
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The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
“While money can’t buy happiness, it certainly let’s you choose your own form of misery”
I am scrolling on my phone ... on social media quotes ...
smiling while reading the ones regarding money or success.
I was obsessed about ... money.
And many times also about ... success.
Being young ... at the beginning of my journey through life ... i believed in those dreams ... but now i am smiling reading this.
In fact ... i would even say ... that i am laughing ... but i don’t want to offend all the ones that are chasing those paths in life.
It was funny ... realizing that money will never bring happiness ... but all kind of miseries ... and the illusion that the end ... will be a happy one.
Is like we need to go through Hell ... so that we actually find the real path to the Paradise.
We search for joy ... and we are surrounded by misery ... all around.
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... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
And truth be told, no one ever told us that ... with the money ... we can buy happiness ... cause there is no real currency that can buy ... the emotions we are chasing so much.
Is even useless to describe such an illusory concept ... but we still have in our minds the illusion that at the end of the this journey to success ... which is in fact a journey to a pathless path ... we will see the joy inside of our souls.
We might actually see it ... but one second later ... it will just disappear ... to nowhere.
Misery will appear again ... but we don’t see the connection between the misery itself and ... us.
We actually paid ... the price of our own form of ... misery ...
but can’t realize the paradox.
Yes we looked for happiness ... but there is no joy around us ... and still can’t admit it.
There is one thing left to do ... continue the journey ... and hoping that even if the soul is overwhelmed by sadness ...
one day ... happiness will appear from nowhere ... and smile to us.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
Attitude is a reflection of our mental software and the influences around us ... but it can also be inherited
Attitude can be always changed ... and it’s basically ... a decision.
Ca be ... a positive or a negative one.
But a strong attitude is mainly controlled by our thoughts and emotions ... and maybe this is the reason why we see even at ourselves ... this balance between a good and a bad attitude ... in different kind of situations.
For the lucky ones ... the attitude was an important lesson of life learnt early at home ... by the parent that was closest to us ... and this is the reason why it can represent a reflection of the mental software.
On the other hand ... we are living in an ocean of
influences ... and everything around teach us how should act on the stage of life.
Of course ... the most important important persons near us ... counts the most ... and they can become great
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teachers that shows us the best way of acting.
A beautiful mother, with the body of a top model ... can teach her daughter have the attitude of a diva ... but also the daughter can teach her mother have the attitude of a young beautiful lady ... all her life ... no matter the age she has. Attitude is an important aspect of life ... and sometimes matters the most.
But ... you see ... it can also be a reflection of our dreams and desires.
I once had the chance to met a gorgeous girl, came from the countryside ... from a poor family, that was acting like a hollywood actress.
She had an amazing attitude ... reflecting the power of her dreams ... and almost had the chance to go to Hollywood ... The attitude defines us.
So ... dare to be the one you want to be ... acting in the best way you should act ... and let yourself influenced only by the amazing people from your life.
And most important ... never let the balance of contradictory emotions and feelings ... change the vibe of a beautiful attitude.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
“When the music of the story stoped ...
i discovered the pleasure of enjoying the ... silence”
Patrick loved Teresa.
He loved her a lot ... in fact.
The only problem was that Teresa was for him an amplifier of all the emotions Patrick can feel.
When everything was ok ... he was feeling like in Paradise with her ... having strong joy emotions in his soul .... but
when they annoyed each other he was feeling like in Hell. Patrick wrote me ... not understanding what is going on and asking me to give him the definition of this balance of contradictory emotions.
He came to a point of his life ... where he was feeling his ...
emotional bankruptcy.
Could not stand anymore jumping from Hell to Paradise and from Paradise to Hell ... one million times a day.
I was just smiling reading his thoughts .. but also paying attention to everything he was telling me.
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