I go in the complex, i knock on the door of his business partners ... tell them about the problem and that i need their help.
They smiled asking ...”What if we go there and he or his wife calls to police believing that we came to kill them?! She is alone at home with the kids.”
Well ... it was funny asking that ... but they came, helped me and his wife was amazed that Benjamin’s enemies came to help.
She was not understanding what is going on either ... and what to believe about Benjamin.
Calls Benjamin ... tells him the story ... but again he thought
that something was wrong ... cause he could not believe
what we were telling him.
I was his friend.
Clara ... was his wife.
But still ... he was believing that those guys want to kill him. We all realized that we can’t control the dance of his contradictory emotions ... and just the passing of time will help him realize that this nightmare from his head was just an illusory scenario and that his mind was playing around
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
81
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
with him.
We just needed to wait ... and let him calm down ...
And i am sure that many times i’ve been as Benjamin ... but did not realized it .. same as he is not seeing the things now ... in the same way we see them.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
82
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
Sing and dance ... a way of changing your vibe
Indeed ... negativity is part of us and might be present on the timeline of our life many, many times ... without having almost no control over that.
It express itself very easy and comes to surface right away when we are in difficult times.
Even the ugly weather makes it appear right away ... for all the ones that are weather sensitive ... so what else could i say about it ...
And life becomes a balance between good and bad vibes ... but then the balance becomes more a dance than a balance and is almost totally dominated by the evil side of the us. So ... everywhere we look around we see an expression of negativity on different forms ... and can’t really find a way of changing reality.
But we forget one thing.
A very, very important one ... and that’s the fact that all we feel is a perception ... and all those emotions we feel are
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
83
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
simple interpretations as a result of connecting with the real scene of life.
And maybe the outside world can’t be changed, but there are many, many ways in how we can chance the vibration of the world from inside of us.
For some ... that could be ... walking into the woods ... or in parks ... for some practicing an extreme hobby they have ... but something very easy ... should be to sing and dance ...
or maybe just listen to beautiful music.
You see ... music carries vibes ... usually beautiful vibes inside of it .. and listening and actually connecting to it ...
then why not sign and dance ... is a way of switching realities
... the ugly one from the scene of life with a beautiful one.
It’s simple and it works all the time.
You can do it ... almost right away ... maybe with the simple condition to be alone ... that being actually a condition of being able to connect to yourself.
But maybe you are an extrovert ... and you could decide that each time you feel a negative emotion inside of your soul ... to just act as a ... cheerleader ... and focus only on the vibes
... the beautiful ones.
Just try the trick!
It really works!
Listen to the music ... sing ... and dance.
Then ... your vibe will be different!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
84
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
“She was ... an emotional amplifier.
I was feeling so alive with her and for a moment i totally forgot that i was dead by such a long time.”
Bill was obsessed about business and making money ... and after 20 years he realizes that he is not feeling alive anymore.
Making money daily it was kind of a weird addiction that was provoking him pleasure ... but the sensation was so volatile ... that ended after only 15 minutes.
So ... somehow one day he understood that the path he was
following by such a long time ... was actually a pathless path.
He needed a change ... but no idea came to his mind and he
was not considering himself lucky enough ... as a magical
change to appear into his life.
But guess what?!
In a unbelievable way ... an amazing lady appears as a new love story and makes him forget about all his ideas about life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
85
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
She resets himself ... and makes him falls in love as a teenager ... feeling more alive than ever. He ... could not believe it.
Not so long time ago he was the master of all his emotions ... but now he lost the control on everything ... including himself.
He suddenly started to see the whole world painted in beautiful colors ... and he was actually feeling like the king of the world.
But ... it was a small problem.
The king started to feel alive again ... but ... and it was a huge but ... he was not running the show anymore.
She became an emotional amplifier for his soul ... and that made him feel overwhelmed by all those weird feelings. Was not used to feel anything ... anymore ... but now everything was changed.
And the price of change ... was not cheap ... but it was too late.
The control was lost.
She was controlling now all his vibes ... and just a simple smile was enough as him to feel the joy inside of his soul. But maybe that’s life.
You want to feel safe ... you’ll not feel alive.
And if you dare to feel alive ... then a collection of emotions ... sometimes contradictory ones ... will dominate your soul.
So ... who knows what is the best?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
86
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
It’s ok to not be ok
Imagine someone is telling you ...without any diplomacy that
... “I believe you are under the attack of a depression... “. You knew it ... but you hided it so damm well that you even forgot it.
Deep inside yourself everything has negative values ... but in the outer world ... everything looks ok.
And you actually do your best to be ok ... cause no one ever told you that it’s ok to not be ok.
We are afraid of our feelings .... or i should say that in fact
we accept just the positive vibes.
But imagine that in school ... besides chemistry, mathematical formulas, biology etc etc ... and too many other useless things that we never really cared about and will not meet the concepts in the real life to help us with something ... just imagine ... that a teacher could explain you the meaning of your emotions and how you cam deal with them.
The simple fact ... that we should see at the feelings that worries us ... signs that something is not ok ... and we don’t
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
87
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
follow the right path of life.
... i mean the real path that is destined for us.
The ugly vibes ... sometimes don’t lie and are not false alarms.
Negative emotions carries always a message ... but we should be wise enough to meditate and understand that something ... that looks so abstract.
I know ... it should be amazing as life to be a chain reaction of beautiful events ... and our souls to be fulfilled just with great vibes ... but life has also different lessons to teach us. And maybe we should trust the Universe that knows better than us to keep the right balance between positivity and negativity.
So ... you are not ok?!
Well .... let me give to an amazing news ... it’s ok to not be
ok.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
88
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
Coming back to the old standards
... quite annoying, but also funny
I was reading the news regarding the increase of the energy price ... and i was smiling.
I stoped reading the news by already few years ... but i payed a little bit of attention to this subject.
Don’t even know who is the prime minister from my country ... but after receiving an email from the electricity company ... l’ve called them to ask if it is a joke ... or the email is real.
Could not believe that actually the new price is 3 times more expensive ... and even if i heard people complaining about that ... i ignored the news.
But you see ... that is the new reality and that is going to be
the new standard price of kw.
It’s ok!
Of course i have the right to complain about that ... but it will be useless.
I am mature enough to understand that my complains ... will
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
89
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
not change anything and only adapting to the situation is the real solution.
I heard all kinds of discussions about people that will not be able to pay their energy bills and suddenly i remember that when i was a kid, in the communist times we used to stay at 16 celsius degrees at home ... and we’ve survived.
We were not complaining ... and if we felt it is too cold we took another jacket.
So ... bottom line ... i smile and i realize that people that will not be able to pay those huge energy invoices ... and there will be people all around the world in this position ... they will need to ... readapt to the old standards.
In my country those standards were removed at the end of 1989.
Probably in England ... people stoped seeing as a standard to stay in the winter time at home at that temperature ... maybe 100 years ago.
But now ... even if i am smiling writing that ... this might be the real solution ... readapt to the old standards.
I know a guy that had a Rolls-Royce and was the richest guy from his area.
He own supermarkets and lots of other businesses.
He even own a football team ... but one day he was arrested and went to jail.
And you see ... in there .... he was adapting to the situation
and he was cleaning floors.
Imagine to have the chance of being the richest guy from
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
90
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
your area ... own a Rolls with driver and then the next day to clean floors and toilets.
Imagine the contradictory emotions that guy had in his soul.
Maybe indeed he was a bad guy and needed to go to jail ...
but still he is a soul ... same as all of us.
Someone i know ... was visiting the prison with a religious mission and saw him ... while he was making the cleaning job.
He told me his story ... in fact the other side of the story ...
and i realized that the guy is a motivational character.
You see ... motivational materials are telling us the story of the journey from cleaning floors to having your own Rolls with driver ... but i did not saw the reverse story.
No one tells us how we should adapt to worst case scenarios ... cause they are real ... and might happen too. And the solution is not to complain ... or cry ... or even get suicide .... but to know how to adapt to any scenario life has to offer.
We should see it ... as an important episode ... and an amazing life lesson.
That should motivation teach us ... and we should be ready for anything would happen in life ... without having any feeling of being indignant.
I know that would be difficult to tell my kids that in the
winter time we will need fo stay home at 16 celsius
degrees ... and it will be difficult for anyone from the world to
do that ... but going back in the past ... to the old
standards ... it will be fun.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
91
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
Smile to anything happens in life ... and just try to adapt to any life scenario.
The Universe knows better why it happens.
Indeed you have the right to be indignant ... but also the duty to adapt yourself to any situation.
So ... coming back to the huge increase of energy prices ... i only smile to this illusory problem ... cause i recently watched at some documentaries about how homo sapiens was living an eternity ago ... and i believe they survived in the winter times ... cause we survived as a specie.
The new test of our times ... comparing with the prehistorical times ... is ridiculous.
We just can’t compare them.
So ... i actually laugh at all those people around me that are feeling indignant and forgot the old standards from 30 years ago.
I should probably tell them the story of the rich guy .. owning a Rolls ...that was cleaning floors today ... and ask them to analyze and define the balance of contradictory emotions from the soul of a person that was feeling he is a price and became over night a pauper.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
92
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
A $ 50,000,000 house is indeed amazing ... but it will not necessary bring happiness in that home, cause happiness is not so related with the money as we might think
You cam see lots of gorgeous houses over the internet ... and sometimes the prices are ... huge.
But i was wondering why should someone pay so much on a
house ... or an apartment?!
What are the expectations?!
It happens i know lots of businessmen from my country and i saw that many of them paid lots of attention to this chapter ... and they really have beautiful houses .. but still i did not felt them as happy beings.
So can money ... or the fact that having the ability of buying an amazing house ... can really help us feel happy at home?! Do we really need such a place ... or what is the most important ... is actually to live with great people in that house?!
I mean ... to have a good spouse ... and a good connection
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
93
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
with that person, be happy that you have good kids ... spent time with them ... and enjoy the fact that at home you actually live in an amazing world.
Most probably ... living in a $ 50,000,000 property can induce you a nice feeling ... no matter if it is an apartment in New York or a castle in France ... but i still believe that the people living in there are the ones that give life to that place. So ... not the place itself can make you have that eternal feeling of being happy ...
They smiled asking ...”What if we go there and he or his wife calls to police believing that we came to kill them?! She is alone at home with the kids.”
Well ... it was funny asking that ... but they came, helped me and his wife was amazed that Benjamin’s enemies came to help.
She was not understanding what is going on either ... and what to believe about Benjamin.
Calls Benjamin ... tells him the story ... but again he thought
that something was wrong ... cause he could not believe
what we were telling him.
I was his friend.
Clara ... was his wife.
But still ... he was believing that those guys want to kill him. We all realized that we can’t control the dance of his contradictory emotions ... and just the passing of time will help him realize that this nightmare from his head was just an illusory scenario and that his mind was playing around
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
81
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
with him.
We just needed to wait ... and let him calm down ...
And i am sure that many times i’ve been as Benjamin ... but did not realized it .. same as he is not seeing the things now ... in the same way we see them.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
82
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
Sing and dance ... a way of changing your vibe
Indeed ... negativity is part of us and might be present on the timeline of our life many, many times ... without having almost no control over that.
It express itself very easy and comes to surface right away when we are in difficult times.
Even the ugly weather makes it appear right away ... for all the ones that are weather sensitive ... so what else could i say about it ...
And life becomes a balance between good and bad vibes ... but then the balance becomes more a dance than a balance and is almost totally dominated by the evil side of the us. So ... everywhere we look around we see an expression of negativity on different forms ... and can’t really find a way of changing reality.
But we forget one thing.
A very, very important one ... and that’s the fact that all we feel is a perception ... and all those emotions we feel are
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
83
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
simple interpretations as a result of connecting with the real scene of life.
And maybe the outside world can’t be changed, but there are many, many ways in how we can chance the vibration of the world from inside of us.
For some ... that could be ... walking into the woods ... or in parks ... for some practicing an extreme hobby they have ... but something very easy ... should be to sing and dance ...
or maybe just listen to beautiful music.
You see ... music carries vibes ... usually beautiful vibes inside of it .. and listening and actually connecting to it ...
then why not sign and dance ... is a way of switching realities
... the ugly one from the scene of life with a beautiful one.
It’s simple and it works all the time.
You can do it ... almost right away ... maybe with the simple condition to be alone ... that being actually a condition of being able to connect to yourself.
But maybe you are an extrovert ... and you could decide that each time you feel a negative emotion inside of your soul ... to just act as a ... cheerleader ... and focus only on the vibes
... the beautiful ones.
Just try the trick!
It really works!
Listen to the music ... sing ... and dance.
Then ... your vibe will be different!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
84
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
“She was ... an emotional amplifier.
I was feeling so alive with her and for a moment i totally forgot that i was dead by such a long time.”
Bill was obsessed about business and making money ... and after 20 years he realizes that he is not feeling alive anymore.
Making money daily it was kind of a weird addiction that was provoking him pleasure ... but the sensation was so volatile ... that ended after only 15 minutes.
So ... somehow one day he understood that the path he was
following by such a long time ... was actually a pathless path.
He needed a change ... but no idea came to his mind and he
was not considering himself lucky enough ... as a magical
change to appear into his life.
But guess what?!
In a unbelievable way ... an amazing lady appears as a new love story and makes him forget about all his ideas about life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
85
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
She resets himself ... and makes him falls in love as a teenager ... feeling more alive than ever. He ... could not believe it.
Not so long time ago he was the master of all his emotions ... but now he lost the control on everything ... including himself.
He suddenly started to see the whole world painted in beautiful colors ... and he was actually feeling like the king of the world.
But ... it was a small problem.
The king started to feel alive again ... but ... and it was a huge but ... he was not running the show anymore.
She became an emotional amplifier for his soul ... and that made him feel overwhelmed by all those weird feelings. Was not used to feel anything ... anymore ... but now everything was changed.
And the price of change ... was not cheap ... but it was too late.
The control was lost.
She was controlling now all his vibes ... and just a simple smile was enough as him to feel the joy inside of his soul. But maybe that’s life.
You want to feel safe ... you’ll not feel alive.
And if you dare to feel alive ... then a collection of emotions ... sometimes contradictory ones ... will dominate your soul.
So ... who knows what is the best?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
86
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
It’s ok to not be ok
Imagine someone is telling you ...without any diplomacy that
... “I believe you are under the attack of a depression... “. You knew it ... but you hided it so damm well that you even forgot it.
Deep inside yourself everything has negative values ... but in the outer world ... everything looks ok.
And you actually do your best to be ok ... cause no one ever told you that it’s ok to not be ok.
We are afraid of our feelings .... or i should say that in fact
we accept just the positive vibes.
But imagine that in school ... besides chemistry, mathematical formulas, biology etc etc ... and too many other useless things that we never really cared about and will not meet the concepts in the real life to help us with something ... just imagine ... that a teacher could explain you the meaning of your emotions and how you cam deal with them.
The simple fact ... that we should see at the feelings that worries us ... signs that something is not ok ... and we don’t
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
87
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
follow the right path of life.
... i mean the real path that is destined for us.
The ugly vibes ... sometimes don’t lie and are not false alarms.
Negative emotions carries always a message ... but we should be wise enough to meditate and understand that something ... that looks so abstract.
I know ... it should be amazing as life to be a chain reaction of beautiful events ... and our souls to be fulfilled just with great vibes ... but life has also different lessons to teach us. And maybe we should trust the Universe that knows better than us to keep the right balance between positivity and negativity.
So ... you are not ok?!
Well .... let me give to an amazing news ... it’s ok to not be
ok.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
88
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
Coming back to the old standards
... quite annoying, but also funny
I was reading the news regarding the increase of the energy price ... and i was smiling.
I stoped reading the news by already few years ... but i payed a little bit of attention to this subject.
Don’t even know who is the prime minister from my country ... but after receiving an email from the electricity company ... l’ve called them to ask if it is a joke ... or the email is real.
Could not believe that actually the new price is 3 times more expensive ... and even if i heard people complaining about that ... i ignored the news.
But you see ... that is the new reality and that is going to be
the new standard price of kw.
It’s ok!
Of course i have the right to complain about that ... but it will be useless.
I am mature enough to understand that my complains ... will
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
89
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
not change anything and only adapting to the situation is the real solution.
I heard all kinds of discussions about people that will not be able to pay their energy bills and suddenly i remember that when i was a kid, in the communist times we used to stay at 16 celsius degrees at home ... and we’ve survived.
We were not complaining ... and if we felt it is too cold we took another jacket.
So ... bottom line ... i smile and i realize that people that will not be able to pay those huge energy invoices ... and there will be people all around the world in this position ... they will need to ... readapt to the old standards.
In my country those standards were removed at the end of 1989.
Probably in England ... people stoped seeing as a standard to stay in the winter time at home at that temperature ... maybe 100 years ago.
But now ... even if i am smiling writing that ... this might be the real solution ... readapt to the old standards.
I know a guy that had a Rolls-Royce and was the richest guy from his area.
He own supermarkets and lots of other businesses.
He even own a football team ... but one day he was arrested and went to jail.
And you see ... in there .... he was adapting to the situation
and he was cleaning floors.
Imagine to have the chance of being the richest guy from
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
90
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
your area ... own a Rolls with driver and then the next day to clean floors and toilets.
Imagine the contradictory emotions that guy had in his soul.
Maybe indeed he was a bad guy and needed to go to jail ...
but still he is a soul ... same as all of us.
Someone i know ... was visiting the prison with a religious mission and saw him ... while he was making the cleaning job.
He told me his story ... in fact the other side of the story ...
and i realized that the guy is a motivational character.
You see ... motivational materials are telling us the story of the journey from cleaning floors to having your own Rolls with driver ... but i did not saw the reverse story.
No one tells us how we should adapt to worst case scenarios ... cause they are real ... and might happen too. And the solution is not to complain ... or cry ... or even get suicide .... but to know how to adapt to any scenario life has to offer.
We should see it ... as an important episode ... and an amazing life lesson.
That should motivation teach us ... and we should be ready for anything would happen in life ... without having any feeling of being indignant.
I know that would be difficult to tell my kids that in the
winter time we will need fo stay home at 16 celsius
degrees ... and it will be difficult for anyone from the world to
do that ... but going back in the past ... to the old
standards ... it will be fun.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
91
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
Smile to anything happens in life ... and just try to adapt to any life scenario.
The Universe knows better why it happens.
Indeed you have the right to be indignant ... but also the duty to adapt yourself to any situation.
So ... coming back to the huge increase of energy prices ... i only smile to this illusory problem ... cause i recently watched at some documentaries about how homo sapiens was living an eternity ago ... and i believe they survived in the winter times ... cause we survived as a specie.
The new test of our times ... comparing with the prehistorical times ... is ridiculous.
We just can’t compare them.
So ... i actually laugh at all those people around me that are feeling indignant and forgot the old standards from 30 years ago.
I should probably tell them the story of the rich guy .. owning a Rolls ...that was cleaning floors today ... and ask them to analyze and define the balance of contradictory emotions from the soul of a person that was feeling he is a price and became over night a pauper.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
92
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
A $ 50,000,000 house is indeed amazing ... but it will not necessary bring happiness in that home, cause happiness is not so related with the money as we might think
You cam see lots of gorgeous houses over the internet ... and sometimes the prices are ... huge.
But i was wondering why should someone pay so much on a
house ... or an apartment?!
What are the expectations?!
It happens i know lots of businessmen from my country and i saw that many of them paid lots of attention to this chapter ... and they really have beautiful houses .. but still i did not felt them as happy beings.
So can money ... or the fact that having the ability of buying an amazing house ... can really help us feel happy at home?! Do we really need such a place ... or what is the most important ... is actually to live with great people in that house?!
I mean ... to have a good spouse ... and a good connection
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
93
The dance of our emotions is a
... nonsense ... but a main part of our lives
with that person, be happy that you have good kids ... spent time with them ... and enjoy the fact that at home you actually live in an amazing world.
Most probably ... living in a $ 50,000,000 property can induce you a nice feeling ... no matter if it is an apartment in New York or a castle in France ... but i still believe that the people living in there are the ones that give life to that place. So ... not the place itself can make you have that eternal feeling of being happy ...
