… or maybe the Universe pushed him to start a new life … forgetting about those 2 annoying ladies from his life …. and
become a real support for people that really needed someone from outside to come and change their lives.
David simple had enough about being analyzed and defined as the worst human being from the plannet …. and the new
life as a volunteer in Africa totally changed this opinion about him.
So … trying to find an answer to what he rhetorically asked me …. about the importance of analyzing and defining life …
but also caring about the way we are analyzed and defined by the others … i somehow believe that the moment when we feel that we are not on the right path, or the others are repeating this negative message to us on and on …. we
should simple redefine everything … till we feel again that great vibe that we are on the right path of life.
even if that means to end connections with people that are very close to us.
Follow … the vibe.
It is the best decision you could take.
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No matter what defines your life … it’s all about seeing the … beautiful side of it … and how you can amplify that vibe
Me and Paul know a real estate investor that builds very beautiful houses.
In fact he has a model of spanish mansion and he builds that model on and on and on.
I need to admit that the house is gorgeous.
What is funny is that the first house he sold with 350k dollars, then the second one 400k … then 580 k, them 870 k …. and the last one with on million dollars.
Same house …. in the same area, with the same design,
same amazing garden … but with totally different prices. Having a friend that wanted to buy a house with a budget of 800k dollars … Paul calls me asking if we can negotiate a little bit with Denis and ask him to sell the house for less than one million.
So i call Denis … ask him what is the price of the house … and he says … “ Well … i changed a little bit the price. I was meditating in the garden of that house … cause i also moved in there for a while … and i realized that one million is too little.
Feeling the vibration of both … house and also the garden … i believe that 2 million is a fair price”
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I could not believe it.
Me and Paul were thinking that he can negotiate from one million to 800k … and he doubled the price. What the hell was in his mind?!
I was totally annoyed.
Call Paul … and he suddenly started to laugh very, very load …. “Hahahaha! I cannot believed it.
This guy never read in his life a motivational or spiritual book, but he is a genius.
He doubled the price of the house almost every time when he built a new one …. just because he loved the vibration of that place.
Is funny cause we never saw in real estate the connection between the price of the property and the vibration of that place.”
And indeed … truth be told … no matter what defines your life
it’s all about seeing the … beautiful side of it … and how you can amplify that vibe.
A gorgeous house with an amazing garden … can daily amplify our vibe …. and we should keep in mind that no matter of the budget that we have for a house … first of all we should connect to that place … and read the vibe.
And if it is a good one … that’s the place we should buy.
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The human soul can be an angel … but also a devil. It all depends of what you
actually activate in the connection
with that person
The problem with the long term relationships is that life will take us in many, many situations … and sometimes we know how to react into a beautiful way … but sometimes we just don’t.
My friend Emilio had been married for example 7 times ….
and each time he divorced … did it cause he realized he’s not liking anymore … the wife.
When Emilio told me the first time that he’d been married so many times … i thought he is joking … but he was not. He was smiling while telling me the whole story:
“Listen! … the first time i was really in love. Everything was perfect. It was the perfect love story … and i could not believe i was so lucky to meet her. But little by little things changed.
… and unfortunately i saw an angel becoming a devil.
I defined everything as an accident …. but things remained
that way …. and even if i tried so much to fix our relationship
… she remained a shrew till we divorced … and most
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probably even after that.
So … we ended that marriage and then i married again.
And one more time happened the same thing.
I was so happy with Ellis, my second wife, that i totally forgot the divorce with Maria.
I had an amazing vibe having her into my arms.
But damn it.
It happened again.
I lived one more time the same scenario that i had with Maria.
And guess what?!
The 3rd marriage … was the same.
The 4th one … also the same.
And when i divorced the 7th time … i realized it’s time to stop
getting marry again and again and again …. cause i already knew the scenario … every beautiful story ended into an ugly way.
So … i was losing my time … and in fact my life.” I smiled.
“Emilio! But everything sounds a little bit pessimistic.
And i would also want to ask you …. what if in one point you actually did something that activated the dark side of your partner?!
Have you ever thought about that?!
It just makes no sense as the perfect love story to end all the time as an ugly one.
Maybe … after 7 marriages … it’s the best time to ask yourself … why the Universe keep sending you in the same story?!”
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Emilio was a little bit annoyed of what i’ve said … we talked few more things and left.
And i was wondering … why the human connections are fucked up after a while?!
it is true that in the beginning we see just the beautiful side … and later on … we somehow also activate the dark side … and just destroy the beauty of being together?!
Well … who the hell knows.
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Connection is … everything
I’ve been wondering many times about the meaning of the human connections.
…but also why a love story is such an important episode in the life of an individual.
Analyzing and defining my own life … i somehow see things even more clear … but still … i don’t feel that i totally understand the meaning of … the connection.
Recently …. i saw something weird on social media at one of
my friends, a guy from Ireland … involved also in the renting business … with a very large portofolio of houses.
I was chatting with him from time to time about his renting business … but never about philosophy and was socked to see him posting a movie from a forest. Too abstract … for him … i said.
Or at least this is what i believed, until i asked him about the meaning of that movie … and he replied smiling … “Well … you see … i have a love affair with a very beautiful lady. She makes me feel amazing.
I like her a lot … and i even believe i infinitely love her.
It’s a great connection.
Something i never had before …. and maybe i will never have
again.
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But being married ….both of us … we just need to hide all the
time.
Yesterday we found a forest.
We made love in there … into the nature … and it was all an experience that i can’t describe in words.
And is funny … cause even if i own so many properties ….
being forced to hide all the time … only the nature can provide us the environment we need for our beautiful love story.
Behind the images i’ve posted … it’s an amazing vibe … the love between 2 lost souls … hiding their story … in the heart of nature.
You might see just the trees in the movie …. but if you are
connected on the energy of love … you will hear nature whispering you the amazing experience me and Julia have in there.
We need to … hide all the time.
We hide our love …. and maybe only the nature can
understand us … but that is the gateway to the amazing energies of love.”
I smile hearing my friend, realizing that a real estate investor can be so damn … abstract and … in love.
But i also realize now …. hearing the story of my friend … the
meaning of … the connection between souls … and that we don’t need anything at all … if we are near that person that we name … soulmate.
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“She painted my soul … in
such an abstract way”
It is said … that we attract … what we are … and maybe that’s my case also.
I wrote about 10 books about love stories … in fact illicit love stories and today i receive almost everyday emails or messages from people from all around the world … men, but also women … telling me about love affairs that are revealing in fact an existential crisis of a … certain age. I smile reading all those … messages.
And sometimes …. I even laugh …. cause i see myself … like
a reflection … in all those stories.
I see myself in Egypt, in India, in Japan … or Canada.
I see my own reflection … everywhere in the world … all being in fact the illusory search for a beautiful life …. fulfilled with amazing vibes.
Yesterday Mike wrote me a very long message asking me to write to the world … a story which might look amazing, but also dominated by too many contradictory ideas. He was in love.
Maybe she was … the right soulmate, but they broke up again and again and again.
One day … they even asked each other … “We came to the episode number 187 … why we keep breaking up on and on
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and on … if we love each other so much?
It makes …. no sense at all”.
Mike wrote me so many details … that more i was reading … more i saw myself in that story.
It was like i was reading a book about my soul and my … experiences.
In one point … i simple realized that the lady Mike was talking about … no matter what her name was … was a lady that touched his soul.
In fact she painted his soul in such an abstract way …. that
he could not forget her.
They broke up so many times … realizing that they will never have a real life together … but not finding anything beautiful in the real life … in fact that something that could make him feel a similar vibe … she was coming back in her arms … on and on and on.
She painted his soul … all the colors used … were those beautiful vibes …. he felt so many times while being with her.
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Yes …. sometimes life itself
looks as a circus
I was recently asking someone to help me on one issue ….
and instead of saying yes or no … she just asked …. “Haven’t
you enough of this circus?!”
We basically closed the conversation … but she helped me doing what i’ve asked as a favor.
The problem … that her question remained into my mind ..
and i could not get rid of it.
I was hearing her on and on and on …. “Haven’t you enough
of this circus?!”.
The problem itself was not solved …. but i realized its
nonsense … and that i was in a real silly situation.
I knew theoretically all … i had to do.
I knew i had to get out from that story … but still i was asking help to someone else to keep me in that story.
It was … just ridiculous … and i could not believe i am such …
an idiot.
But why?!
Why did i acted so … so silly …. on the stage of my own life
…. wanting to remain into … the nonsense?!
Well … maybe i loved the suspense … and i preferred a life fulfilled with that … instead of a calm life … defined by harmony.
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And truth be told … i loved the chaos.
Made me feel alive … all the time.
But i also can say that i somehow realized that i was running away from … calmness.
I used to define it boring.
But again i asked myself why?!
Then the answer came …. and it was so ridiculous.
Damn it!
I was running away by calmness and harmony … cause i was running away from myself.
I did not wanted to deal with my soul and i was doing all my best to not be in that situation.
The circus … and it really looked as a circus … was in fact … a
subterfuge … but a very tricky one … cause i had moments
why i believed that the outside world can bring me the joy i
was searching for my soul.
And i was … so, so … silly.
The joy was maybe already planted into my soul and all i had to do was to reveal it … by creating the right connection with myself.
The circus … all this collection of silly events i was involved in
were stealing my focus … guiding me to … pathless paths. And … i needed a change.
I had to think of harmony … and how do i find that joy … of being alive … in a totally different direction.
Had no idea … how … could i do it.
Or maybe i had … and i was lying myself again and again and again.
Most probably … it was all … a simple decision.
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I had to choose … between the chaos, which my friend defined in an abstract way … the circus …. and a life defined by harmony.
It was like choosing between a real and a false … joy.
…. But maybe i was still blind and i continued being like that.
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There are one million ways of saying …
“Thank you!” … and people will love to hear that … especially when you make them feel … heroes
I was at the train station in Bucharest, taking a family from Kiev to host at my home.
But just before leaving and saying good bye to the all the volunteers … Sofia … a girl of 12 … wanted to sign a song to everybody from there.
We were a little bit in a hurry, but it was late anyway … so i just said to her … “All of us from here … from the waiting room would love to hear you signing to … us. So … do it!”
Sofia started to sign … and her voice was amazing. Everybody was admiring her …and could not believe that a kid can sign like that.
