Have you ever defined why this?!
Quite simple .... we are just pretenting.
We pretend we read, make sport, quit smoking, play piano and many, many other things.
We just love speaking about how we see our perfect life should look like, but in the end we dont make anything at all as our dreams to come true. Is just a fake action that we play all in.
For having the perfect life you dream for, most of the times you need to work very hard and also to make all kinds of sacrifices.
All in means .... to be fully committed to a task or endeavor; to give or be
prepared to give all of one's energy or resources toward something.
What if you start doing this with your life in everything you say you are going to do?
Well ... pretenting is indeed easier than doing and the absence of courage is always happening.
Let me tell you a short funny story.
I met one time a lady that was pretending that she was divorcing. She even went few times to the court with her husband, but in the end ... in the last second .. she just stopped.
Realised she was was just pretending .... but her hunband was too silly to realise
that.
He was just happy cause everything just stoped.
We do the same as this lovelly lady.
But if one day we should understand that life is too short to play around and die with the music inside of us ... maybe we should realise that action is more important as pretending.
Define better your dreams and goal ... and then have the courage to fight for them!
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Just stop the time
There are so many moments when we really dont know in which direction we should go in life.
We see only obstacles everywhere ... and no way to succed in what we decided to do.
The feeling of being lost, walking though the labyrinth of life is a too strong emotion.
You cannot see a path.
You feel trapped into a cave ... and no way of going out.
When this is happening ... we should just stop from everything we do ... just stop the time.
The meaning of life is to discover ourselves and for that you need to stop ...
meditate and find a new way of living.
Our life had many chapters till now ... and will have others into the future also.
Life, most certainlly, will not stop today.
If your silly mind cant feel the path to follow, let your soul and intuition decide where to go.
Just stop the time, day after day, cause time dont really exists at all ... and is not so important as we might think.
Your soul cannot do anything if you dont quite your mind ... this is why doing that is so important.
But what if you just dont like to end a chapter of your life, just cause you cant find the path?
What happens if you feel you follow the pathless path and evething looks useless ... but still you love so much that chapter, that you cannot close it? And again ... just stop the time ... and enjoy those moments. Dont loose your life being defined by a purpose.
Meaning of life might be that you need to feel alive ... and if you have those moments of feeling the joy inside your soul ... just pay the price of stopping time ... and enjoy everything.
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
When infinite love ends into the mud
We are very influenced by what happens arround us and by what the people we know or love tells us about diffirent situations or people.
We care a lot about what we think that other people think of us.
The life is sometimes so difficult to manage and those people around us feel this need of telling us what they think and what we should really do ... but they never consider the strong feelings from our souls.
So many love stories ended just because he or she payed too much attention to the opinions of others.
Life has a stange meaning ... the road we decided to follow might not look so wise, but in the end i think we should consider the Universe knows better than us what we should do.
A love story is not a business.
Dont see it that way.
A love story cant have a happy end all the time, but you should think about the fact that when you will throw all those strong feelings and emotions, from inside of you, to the trash ... you allow sending in there a part of your soul ... and that’s only cause you pauyed too much credit to all those people from your life. No one can feel your soul, than the person you love.
Letting others define your love story ... all those strong feelings you never thought that you could have ... is a silly thing to do.
Only you and your partner can define the complexity of your relationship. Sharing your love with others .... letting them help you throw everything on trash
or even end up into the mud of life ... defines you at least not a strong enough person.
Sometimes the meaning of love might be the healing of our souls and the partner can be in our life for a certain reason and just for a season.
Love stories might also hurt a lot ... but you must be the one that define and decice everything.
Just let your soul and intuition do whatever wants to do!
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Pure art
Not so many people know what art is really about, but they are many that knows how to play with the art of living.
Yes .... living your life is an art.
You can be the artist of your own life.
When you are young we somehow manage to live any kind of experinces, making a balance between work, home and maybe ... your hobby, if you have one.
You may like to go fishing, travel around the world, paint you vision about life or read books ... anything that you love to do in your free time defines you as a person with a hobby.
But what if one day, you decide to take care only of your hobby and nothing else.
Some people succeed doing that.
Probably you can decide to somehow mix your real life with the hobby also, but you should have a special talent into that.
You can be a great teacher for example ... but love to speak to your students, or write what you going to speak with them ... but you totally dislike the paper works you need to do as a teacher.
You could hire an assistant, that could do all your work and then you are free to do only the role of teaching.
You love to read books, but you need to have a job, do some things you already dislike to do ... so that in your free time to be able to relax and read, not being stressed you dont have money for your bills?! What about your love life?!
You love your partner, but you dont like cleaning the house, go to do shopping at the supermarket, take care of your beautiful garden that can stay beautiful only if you dailly do something etc
How can your love story to be only a love story and dont loose your life with something else?
Can you live a love story only as high school teenagers spend their life when they are fallen in love?
What happens when you decide to see life as pure art and nothing else?
Do you have the right to do that?
I should say that your life belongs to you and is your fundamental right to do absolutelly everything you want to do with it.
If you decide to live only the love story and dont care about anything else ... is just a decision you defined and applyed ... and if you manage things well ... then you are an artist thinking only about pure art.
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The ghost
The ghosting effect is quite a simple one.
People are appearing into your life and then they disappear forever.
Ghosting is a heartbreaking fact in the modern dating world. It's when a friend or someone you've been dating disappears from contact with no explanation. Ghosting can shatter self-esteem and hurt just as much as physical pain.
But what if you are in love with a “ghost” that appears and then dissapears ...
and then appears again and does this on and on and on.
How can you define this “ghost”?!
Difficult to be defined ... i should say.
But with infinite understanding and infinite love you have 1% chances to bring that person into the real world.
Such situations might look imposible ... but in the end probably nothing is imposible.
You need to define the “ghost”, understand those reasons that makes them dissapear ... and most important ... never judge them ... no matter what. The “ghost” can be the perfect partner into a parallel world ... and if you have that huge power of loving without asking anything in return that would help a lot. Only real love can heal a ghost.
Is also important to define for yourself if you want that ghost into the real life or not.
The “ghost” can be the love of your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Defined by the car
Somehow people are defined by the things they possess ... including clothes, houses, cars and many other things.
The car is a very important attribute in the modern times.
100 years ago ... the horse defined the man, but things changed.
Maybe 100 years from now, we will be defined by our space ship ... who knows. I know a guy that had a fantastic car, but always was behind the bills at the leasing company.
He had a tremendous success at ladies of any age. He was a real playboy.
One day, he explained to me the philosophy behind the car.
Yes ... indeed any car can take you from A to B, almost in the same time, but a lovelly car can be a passport to enter much easier into the world of women. But i also know few rich guys, with very cheap cars.
One of them, during the timr had about 3-400 adventures with different ladies. He could buy any car in the world, but he preferred to be defined by his actions, attitude and soul.
So ... i am really curious what do you think?! ... what should be the best way to be defined ... by the things that we possess or by the things that comes from inside of us?
We live in a strange world ... and sometimes is very difficult to understand what is the best example we should follow.
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Loosing their time into the beauty saloon
For the modern woman, beauty is an important aspect of her life.
The woman wants to be always beautiful and will do everything in her powers to stay as that.
It is very difficult for a men to understand why women are loosing their time into the beauty saloons ... but on the other hand ... men are always in love with beautiful women.
They just love the results from the saloons.
But what most of the women forget is the saying that the smile is the best make up a woman can wear.
The right partner ... the right man can make her shine ... be always smiling and happy.
A very beautiful woman is not the one that goes all the time to the beauty saloon, but the one with a good vibe all the time.
A great relationship can metamorphosize her .... just looking unbelievable.
Define what you are searching for when you start your love life ... and keep in mind those details.
Be a smiley face with a happy soul.
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The end … is just a new beginning
It says that new is always better, but sometimes we dislike the beginning of the end ... and the end itself.
We see it ... but we dont want to close that chapter.
We are too stubborns for that.
We dont understand that life has many chapters and lessons to teach us. Coming back into time ... remember high school?!
... most probably it means beautiful memories, but that is a closed chapter of your life.
You dont regret those moments ... caused time passed and you enjoyed other beautiful stories also.
You were unhappy at the end of high school, but college came after with beautiful times.
Then one day the concept of fairy tale appears in your life ... and you have into your mind the illusion that it will never end.
And ... this chapter is also closed ... it hurts a lot .... but you need to go on.
We dont understand the meaning of some people from our life .... but some are
for a reason and some just for a season.
Trust the Universe ... it knows better as you do.
You can define all those chapters, understand the message behind the stories and continue living your life with joy.
The end is just the beginning of something else.
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Got lost into my way of finding the path
We all have this question in our minds .. what is the meaning of life?! How can i find the main path i should follow in life?! How can i ... not to waste my destiny?!
I know a very rich guy, with a huge company that is thinking about retirement. Asked him what he is going to do ... and his vision is to ride his expensive bike into the road of the mountains, close to his house.
I was amazed of the answear ... and did not liked it. I expected a different one.
If i would be rich enough, i would spend my days into a luxury coffee shop ...
writing stories from my phone.
The funny thing is that i can do this even now ... not beeing needed to retire.
Same with my rich friend ... probably.
After spending years meditating at the meaning of life, trying to define the path you should follow you will conclude that there is no special path ... there is no specific way to follow.
The best place from the world, where you should be ... is exactlly the place you are right now and the best path to follow is the path you are following now.
If you could take a spaceship and go just outside the earth, you would understand that the concept of left and right or in front and behind ... are just illusory.
The same for meaning and path of life.
There is no right or left direction to follow.
Just walk through life enjoying the fact that you are alive.
The Universe know better than you to define where to send your soul.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
At your disposal
We are not happy, cause we are afraid of the sensation of being happy.
We sabotage ourselves all the time when we feel we are close to happiness. What if one day you decide to redefine everything you see around you ... how should you do it?!
I think this can be done by being at the disposal of the Universe.
We all have special talents, that we dont use them.
We will end up life .... thinking of all the things we missed in here ... but the
