But we are so silly to define ourselves as our bodies. What about our souls ... how do you feed your soul?!
Do you ever think of that?! Do you have the courange to do it?!
Life is beautiful if your soul is happy ... as your soul to be happy ... define for yourself the meaning of “air of the soul”.
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When you have nothing
... but actually everything
We live a life ... focused on possession of a long, long list of things.
A car, a house, a boat ... and even a child ... we can see as a possession. How can we define someone that had everything, according with the human standards and one day looses everything?!
There are lots of stories with people as that, and we ignore when we read or hear about them.
We only see the small difficulties of our life, that we dailly amplify more and more.
We cant live seeing the beautiful things ... but only tiny, little problems. What if we have money problems, but a beatiful happy familly?!
Money problems does not mean nowadays what it was 50-100 years ago ... not to have what to eat.
Should you change your place with a rich person having an unhappy familly?
What is more important: having possessions or joy inside our souls?!
We dont know to define the real values in life.
We spend too much time focusing on what we dont have, not realising we could spend our life enjoying what we have.
Moments of joy ... are not so present into our timeline ...cause nobody ever teached us that we could have nothing, but in the same time have everything. When you realise that you have everything ...that is the moment when you feel alive.
Make an experiment today: go to a beautiful cafeteria (and i say that even for the ones with weight problems) buy a delicious cake .... and enjoy it. You will feel that wonderful taste and you will love it.
What happens if you decide to buy 2, 3, 4 or even 5 cakes?! You decide to taste all the ones available into the cafeteria.
That mix ... after tasting 4-5 cakes .. will even make you feel sick.
Just one cake is enough ... but we dont get the idea ... cause same is happening into life.
You dont need to be a king and have a huge kingdom to feel alive .... maybe just
seeing the smile of the person you love ... will make your soul a happy one.
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Writing your thoughts
It is so difficult to define our thoughts.
Today we say something ... tomorrow we want the opposite.
Writing down your thoughts will help you understand the one you ve been yesterday and define why that person was metamorphosed so quicklly into a totally different person.
We need to follow the road that our destiny sends us on ... and just walk though life.
Writing down your ideas, your feelings, even if they are so different from one day to another ... will let you connect better with your soul.
Today is a rainy day ... tomorrow is hot ... but we need to learn the art of feeling the joy that the sun is sending to us and also to dance into the rain. Every moment and every feeling has its beauty.
Keep the journal of your soul ... but dont read it to many people.
Only few wants to see you happy.
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It's like a test drive
Jumping from the love story to the real life ... well ... short story ... it’s difficult ...
there is no brigde over this huge gap.
Like in any story that involves magic ... weird things are happening but the end is always a happy one.
You will need all the time to pass different tests ... and there will be lots of moments when you will have no idea what to do.
The ones that sell cars ... came up with this lovelly trick, called test drive.
You fall in love with the car .... you are invited to go for a ride ... and then you
realise the connection you have with the car ... the fact that it defines you ... and you want it ... and you want it right now.
You will need to pay the price ... and then the car is yours.
Quite simple.
In the love story it’s somehow similar, but also a little bit more difficult ... cause you cannot pay with money this kind of subject.
You will need to pay a diffent price ... to pass different tests ... so that you realise
that love is everything and any price you ve been asked to pay ... you will do it ...
if your soul says yes.
So ... jump into the magic car ... follow the road of your feelings... and love will
come into the real life.
Defining the love stories makes you understand that life is beautiful.
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Sending a new message
We live in a world where you can see philosophers everywhere.
Anyone is an expert in defining from sports to political issues ... but only few knows to define and redefine the own life.
And when i say redefine ... i mean changing completlly the script of the life.
For changing life ... first you need to analize everything very well and right after send a new message to the world about you. Its not you anymore ... its the new YOU.
Should be interesting for you to read the story of complete change from KGB to FBS.
Its being taking years ... change the top members, bring new people into the organization, change completlly the philosophy ... but also changing few names ... jumping from KGB to FSB.
And remember ... those guys were experts ... and they knew very well what they were doing.
What chance do we have to make quatuum jumps ... be a totally different person into the eyes of the others.
For example, you are a constructor .. you build small houses and then one day you change the presentation of your company, saying that you are an expert in building sky scrappers.
That is a huge jumb, in most of the cases even illusory ... but maybe there are stories with people that did that.
You could be the kind of person that cheated the other partner for tens of times ... and now says is changed ... can that be seen as a honest message?! Sending a new message into the world, about who you are or who intend to be in the near future is a difficult task ... not imposible ... but difficult to complete.
A new life can be defined by a huge need of change ... so if you think is important
... send corectlly the new message to all the ones around you.
And if they dont listen to you ... let them walk out of your life.
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Defined by your problems
We live in a world defined by 3 major problems with the following issues: weight, money and relationships.
If you would ask anyone you know about their problems, most probably they have one of these 3 difficulties.
We cannot control the world we live in, but on the other hand letting the problems to define your life is not an ideal way to live.
Deciding just to pass the exams of life, being stronger than the problem itself should be a better idea.
You can read long lists with statistics about what is happening all around the world.
Someone in New York is having weight problems, someone in London relationship problems and someone in Pretoria ... problems with the money ... but speak even with the President of your country and you ll be amazed of how many problems he has.
What about a child in the second grade, disliking his class mates ... cause he is not so good in school as them?!
Marriage problems?! Should i give you the statistics?!
The percentage is huge ... but life goes on... and what you will never understand is that most of our problems are just following the process of evaporation through time.
All those things makes our life sucks.
Instead of focusing on them ... maybe we should just define a perfect script scenario of getting out of those situations. Focusing on what you dislike is silly.
Any problem has a solution ... just meditate on it ... define it very well ... and
then apply the solution.
... and SMILE.
You dont have the best weight you would like to have?!
Just think of walking more and foget about eating.
Have money problems?
I had heard hundreds of stories about the lack of money at different persons ...
but no one ever told me that at least is reading any book of how they could become rich.
Relationship problems?! ... maybe you should learn how you should treat people with love and respect ... one day they will understand that there are not so many
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people into the world practing this philosophy.
Meaning of life is not to solve problems but to enjoy the life itself .... and you will
never be able to do that if you see difficulties everywhere.
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She said “I NEED A CLOWN”
We use to see the world and all the new people we meet, though the eyes of our past.
But we dont have the right to compare 2 women or 2 men ... saying they are the same.
We cannot expect as the things to be like it was in our past relationships. Unfortunately we have this silly desire to control all the time situations even if it’s a love story.
We declare we are looking for the perfect partner, but we end up living with a clown, cause we dont know to see life as a dance.
When you dance you need to feel the rithm of music, but also synchronizing is having a huge importance.
You need a powerful connection with the partner .... not to control the partner.
We are living in a society of human beings not of slaves that you can be metamorphosize into zombie creatures ... that lives only for compliting the things we ask them to.
Our relationships with other people, especially into the love stories ... must have the magic inside.
The saying that love is the closest thing we have to magic is true.
Define better what you want in a relationship... but never look for a clown. Enjoy your love story ... even if you cant control it!
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Tattoos
A tattoo is a form of body modification where a design is made by inserting ink, dyes and pigments, either indelible or temporary, into the dermis layer of the skin to change the pigment.
The art of making tattoos is tattooing.
Tattoos on ancient mummified human remains reveal that tattooing has been practiced throughout the world for many centuries.
A leader of a group or a king had special symbols on his skins ... but also ordinary people used to have that.
Being from a specific tribe ... people used certain symbols for their tattoos. That was indicating who they are, where they came from ...short story it was a form of defining them.
Those people did not had luxury clothes or cars to define them ... as happens into the modern society but a nice body with beautiful tattoos on it, could make them look special.
Coming back to our times, we see lots of people that have a tattoo.
100% is a new trend.
The meaning of that is to define and express easier their personalities.
We are defined by many issues as: how we dress, what house we have, what kind of car we are driving ... and now by tattoos.
Before having it, we should think very well at that symbolistic and see the interconnection of it with who you are today and who you might be into the future.
Define your favorite symbols ... and choose the ones that can be like a stamp for your personality.
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Blonde or brunette?!
Which one do you prefer?!
Men love talking about women.
They define them all the time ... some thinking of them in lots of terms ... but all the time enjoying having such a conversation.
If you ask a wise man what he prefers between a blonde a brunette woman ... he will probably say that will choose the both of them.
But a real man does not love a woman because of the colour of her hair, or skin ... but because of her spirit and soul. A real woman can make you feel alive.
Her spirit will redefine your emotions.
Her soul will let you connect with Infinity.
The beauty of her body will make you feel the joy of being alive ... just by watching her.
Men love women ...but sometimes forget that for a real woman, the connection between them is more important than anything else.
Fall in love of beatiful people and enjoy the life togheter.
Dont let the colours define your love story.
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The feeling of shame
reveals the absence of courage
Why you dont have the courage to be who you want to be in life?!
I mean, you can be a teenager reading books trying to understand the meaning of life instead of going to parties ... you can prefer go into the mountains and connect with the nature instead of going to night clubs ... you have the right to do and be whoever you want to be ... and never keep in mind the real values of the community you live into.
Some people express themselves through dance .... or maybe writing .... or
painting.
You can define your best talent... and let it run your life .... no matter how the
people from your life are seeing that.
The feeling of shame, that you are not aligned at the standards of society ... is just expressing the absense of courage from your soul.
A white man from Europe can marry an african girl, a lesbian can present her love to her friends ... not completing the standards does not mean you are not a human being anymore.
We are the victims of our own thoughts and feelings.
Once you will understand that you have the freedom to define your life in any way you want ... then life might appear as beautiful.
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A real lady or a woman fallen in love?!
There is a saying ... that the best makeup a woman can wear is a beautiful smile. A real lady is always looking very well, wearing expensive clothes, luxury accesories, beautiful cars and everything that means her life ... needs to send this message to others that she is the perfect woman.
