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Does it worth to believe in the concept of change?!
Today i believe that the influences we have from the world we live in ... can’t be totally removed ... but we can filter better why we should do ... or not do certain things.
If you will ask someone that is smoking by 10 years why is doing that ... will answer that he loves smoking and can’t quit.
But if you ask why they started to smoke ... the answer will probably be that friends taught him to do it. Smoking is ... a bad habit.
Removing this habit ... again ... is a difficult to implement change ... because the same friends that taught you to smoke, will repeat you that you are losing your time and you won’t be able to do it. Friends ... are sometimes the society.
They show us nonsense paths to follow ... then later on ... explain us the opposite ... that those paths are not good paths ... and we should make a change ... but probably ... 99.99% ... we won’t be able to do it ... but even if we do it ... after a while ... we will just get back to the old bad habits.
So?! What we should really do?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
67
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Van Gogh did not said ... “This is an old chair” ... but a powerful message that today is
a painting with a value of more than 25 million dollars
Van Gogh's Chair is a painting created in 1888 by Dutch artist. It is currently held by the National Gallery, London.
The painting shows a rustic wooden chair, with a simple woven straw seat, on a tiled floor. On the chair seat is a decorated pipe and a pouch of pipe tobacco. In the background is an onion box with Van Gogh's name on it. It has become one of Van Gogh's most iconic images, to the extent that Van Gogh's cataloger Jan Hulsker noted that "there are few pictures of Vincent's about which so much was written in later years."
But to tell you the truth ... i am looking at the painting and can’t find the message behind it.
I am sure that there is a very powerful one ... cause the value of the
art work is today 25 million dollars ... but i can’t see this message.
At least ... not yet.
But what is art?!
I believe is an abstract way of expressing what life is about ... and i am sure the world did not had lots of artists as Van Gogh.
In one point ... analyzing and understanding nothing ... i said to myself ... “I am sorry. The painting is a total nonsense ... and i am losing my time trying to find the message behind that work”.
But probably ... the same way ... other people see from outside what we do with our lives and find everything as a nonsense.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
68
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
The way we dress, the car we decided to buy, the design of the house we build now, the lady we marry with ... everything that defines our lives ... our “art work” ... and might look so ... nonsense actions and decisions ... that will be difficult to make them think of us as individuals of great success or value ... even if we would love that. But for us ... all those things have a meaning ... a message ... “the old chair” ... is not just a chair ... but probably ... even a magic one. But does the “art work” we’ve done value 25 million dollars?!
Well ... it might even worth more and i believe that Van Gogh has also no idea about the real value of his work ... in money ... but felt inside himself ... the power of that “nonsense” ... that probably defines ... in an abstract way ... everything ... just everything his life was.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
69
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And the question is ... Aren’t we all sinners?!
My son knows everything about cars.
He knows all the models ever invented.
He actually loves the cars.
It happens that i have a beautiful car (not so many models of that car in my country) and an old, ugly car .... but i usually drive the last one.
Today ... i’ve been with him in the city and we looked all the time at the beautiful cars.
It was a conversation as ... “My God! Look at that car! .... and that
one! ... and that one!”
We really have lots of beautiful cars around our area, but the funny thing was that all those luxury cars were driven today by very beautiful ladies.
Trying to laugh a little bit of him, i was seriously said to him: “Albert! What are you looking at?! Tell me the truth!”.
He did not understood my question and replies ... “At the car!”
“Are you sure of that?!”
“Yes! Why?!”
“Albert tell me the truth! I believe you were looking at that beautiful lady!”
“No! No! ... i was not doing that!”
He is only 11 and even if their teacher from school told us that speak about sex already ... he did not knew how to react to what i’ve just told him.
And i was continuing.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
70
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
“Albert! You are lying to me! You were looking at that gorgeous
woman! Tell me the truth”
“No! I swear, Daddy!”
He is a very good kid ... and i stoped the joke .. smiling and saying ... “Too bad! I was looking at those ladies ... not at the expensive cars!” Also explained to him ... that we were with the ugly car ... so the ladies will not notice the 2 of us with that car.
Might look like a nonsense ... but i already accepted the fact that i am a sinner.
And ... i should only ask all of you ... “Aren’t we all sinners?!”
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
71
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Many times you ask for another life, but are you really ready for a new one?!
In all the movies or books about the law of attraction, which is a very interesting subject ... you learn that the main secret is ... Ask ... Believe ... Receive.
But the main question is why does not happen right away?!
If we ask and believe .... why don’t we get in the next moment what
we asked for?!
Well ... the answer might be that ... most of the time we ask for nonsense things ... that we don’t really want.
We believe we want a red Porsche ... cause a friend has one ... or a gorgeous mistress cause our neighbour has one ... or a house with a lake view, just cause the uncle has one.
In fact ... we want something that other people have ... just because we don’t have it ... yet.
The moment when that dream becomes true, in a very short time, in many of the cases, it will mean nothing to you.
There are statistic studies about people that bought very expensive cars and it looks like the pleasure of having that car ... it takes only 3 months.
But there is also something else ... why the law of attraction does not work right away ... and i should ask ... are we really ready for another life ... the one that we dream?!
I mean ... the change requires, in most of the cases, to pay a price for it.
Imagine you are an alcoholic and you spend lots of time in the bar with your friends.
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You stay for hours in there, you enjoy the company of your friends ... but you also know that the alcohol will ruin your life ... and you ask for a big change ... a life without alcohol.
That will probably mean ... a life without your actual friends.
Let’s assume you want to lose weight fast ... but you just love eating. Are you ready to forget about all the delicious things you daily taste?! The change will always have its price ... and it will be a non sense to believe you can live between the 2 worlds.
So ... as the law of attraction to happen as you want ... ask yourself
first, those 2 questions:
“Am I really wanting this?!
Am i ready to pay the price for this change?!”
And if is a real Yes ... and you really believe in what you ask to the Universe ... it will just happen.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
73
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Can the profession of the partner influence your happiness?! What is the real connection between the personal and professional life?!
I heard stories ... that in the past women were really attracted by the profession of the man from their lives.
A doctor, a colonel from army, an aviator ... these were jobs that woman just loved.
But i smile when i hear these kinds of stories .... cause it happens i
know doctors, colonels ... aviators etc etc.
They are people with very strong egos ... and i know by such a long time that egocentric persons can’t create happiness around them. But what is the real connection between our professional and personal lives?!
Can the profession have a positive influence into the relationship 2 person have togheter?!
Well ... i am not a therapist, a philosopher or a guru, but i believe is not the profession that defines us as human beings ... but the soul we carry inside of us.
The profession is indeed important as a social status ... but the social status will never bring with itself the happiness.
The happiness in a couple appears when 2 souls are feeling great togheter ... and need nothing else for that ... not even social status, money ... or other things or circumstances.
I am sure that ... still there are many opinions about the importance of those things in our lives, but i still have the power to believe that there must be no real connection between the personal and professional life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
74
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So ... at the question ... when is a woman happier ... when she has a doctor or a banker?! ... i should answer that the one that knows to better connect to her ... is going to be the one that is winning the battle.
Happiness depends only by our souls ... if we open the heart with love
...cause no matter who we really are as a profession ... life as a couple will be amazing.
You need nothing to be happy togheter ... but good chemistry and good vibes.
Don’t look for other nonsense illusions!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
75
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Hiding who we really are
... just a way of surviving
Have you ever thought why do we choose to hide who we really are?! I mean ... if you are a sensitive person and in the real life you are an engineer ... why you hide the fact that you write poems?!
For my case, only few persons know that i write and in the end i changed the subject, but also the social media pages where i write. So instead of saying to everybody that i write, i decided to hide from anyone this fact.
But what i see funny is that i discovered lots of other people around me that are writing poems and essays.
Writing is a way of trying to define your feelings and in fact the way you see life ... and many of my friends were doing this in different ways.
But still ... we hide those facts.
We don’t feel comfortable about the part from us that is not following the dogmatic way of being.
It looks like we have a side that is breaking all the rules we’ve been taught to respect.
Everything else ... any other kind of action or behavior, that is not like the one the society showed you ... is a non sense.
I a world dominated by money and other different kind of possessions ... writing, painting, studying the stars etc ... will create the imagine of nonsense actions.
We find a trick and name it ... hobby ... but still we hide this artistic or sensitive part.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
76
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Today ... i believe everything is happing this way ... because we don’t have the guts to be on the real stage of life ... who we really want to be.
The power of dogmatic thinking ... or behavior ... dominates us and expressing our real personality is seen as a total nonsense.
Hiding who we really are becames just a way of surviving ... of still dreaming that one day we will have the courage to say ... “I am not the one that you know ... but if you can look in my soul ... you will meet the real me”.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
77
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
“It was too damm good.
The kind of good thar ruins
you for everyone else”
It happens i know a couple that is very difficult to be understood.
I mean ... i tried, but everything looks like a total nonsense, even to me ... a person that is studying the journey of the human being in the path to nowhere.
The couple i know were very deep in love, but they tried 100 times to get rid one of another.
The only real problem is that the Universe is laughing of the 2 of them and arrange some “accidental” meeting all the time.
They block each other on all the posible channels ... and they succeed to forget one of another ... but when they met again ... everything collapse.
In the next second ... they remembered about the love story that they had ... and the fact that they were soul mates.
They could never be togheter for real ... but they could also not forget about how damm good it was in the story.
And even if everything was for them a pathless path ... each time when they were arranging things to start being a couple in the real life ... something stoped them.
But the nonsense was that the love could not be deleted from their souls.
And even if they decided to stop seeing each other ... no matter what ... in the end ... just accidentally meetings ended making love again and again.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
78
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
It was ... in the story ... and out if the story ... then again in the love story ....
A never ending story ... but a beautiful one.
They not even bothered to unblock each other ... cause they knew that somehow they will meet again ... and for a short time they will become lovers again and again and again. Love stories are difficult to be understood.
Sometimes we see them ... as the secret of a beautiful life ...
sometimes as a total nonsense.
The power of love is stronger than anything else ... cause is so damm good when you are meeting the soul mate ... but that just ruins you for starting any kind of other story.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
79
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
My vibe ... my actual currency The nonsense why poor can mean rich and rich can mean poor
I’ve just rented last night a house for the workers of a guy that explained me in about one hour how rich he is.
He owns a hotel near the airport, a house by the lake side, that costed about 1 million dollars, expensive cars etc etc.
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Does it worth to believe in the concept of change?!
Today i believe that the influences we have from the world we live in ... can’t be totally removed ... but we can filter better why we should do ... or not do certain things.
If you will ask someone that is smoking by 10 years why is doing that ... will answer that he loves smoking and can’t quit.
But if you ask why they started to smoke ... the answer will probably be that friends taught him to do it. Smoking is ... a bad habit.
Removing this habit ... again ... is a difficult to implement change ... because the same friends that taught you to smoke, will repeat you that you are losing your time and you won’t be able to do it. Friends ... are sometimes the society.
They show us nonsense paths to follow ... then later on ... explain us the opposite ... that those paths are not good paths ... and we should make a change ... but probably ... 99.99% ... we won’t be able to do it ... but even if we do it ... after a while ... we will just get back to the old bad habits.
So?! What we should really do?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
67
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Van Gogh did not said ... “This is an old chair” ... but a powerful message that today is
a painting with a value of more than 25 million dollars
Van Gogh's Chair is a painting created in 1888 by Dutch artist. It is currently held by the National Gallery, London.
The painting shows a rustic wooden chair, with a simple woven straw seat, on a tiled floor. On the chair seat is a decorated pipe and a pouch of pipe tobacco. In the background is an onion box with Van Gogh's name on it. It has become one of Van Gogh's most iconic images, to the extent that Van Gogh's cataloger Jan Hulsker noted that "there are few pictures of Vincent's about which so much was written in later years."
But to tell you the truth ... i am looking at the painting and can’t find the message behind it.
I am sure that there is a very powerful one ... cause the value of the
art work is today 25 million dollars ... but i can’t see this message.
At least ... not yet.
But what is art?!
I believe is an abstract way of expressing what life is about ... and i am sure the world did not had lots of artists as Van Gogh.
In one point ... analyzing and understanding nothing ... i said to myself ... “I am sorry. The painting is a total nonsense ... and i am losing my time trying to find the message behind that work”.
But probably ... the same way ... other people see from outside what we do with our lives and find everything as a nonsense.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
68
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
The way we dress, the car we decided to buy, the design of the house we build now, the lady we marry with ... everything that defines our lives ... our “art work” ... and might look so ... nonsense actions and decisions ... that will be difficult to make them think of us as individuals of great success or value ... even if we would love that. But for us ... all those things have a meaning ... a message ... “the old chair” ... is not just a chair ... but probably ... even a magic one. But does the “art work” we’ve done value 25 million dollars?!
Well ... it might even worth more and i believe that Van Gogh has also no idea about the real value of his work ... in money ... but felt inside himself ... the power of that “nonsense” ... that probably defines ... in an abstract way ... everything ... just everything his life was.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
69
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
And the question is ... Aren’t we all sinners?!
My son knows everything about cars.
He knows all the models ever invented.
He actually loves the cars.
It happens that i have a beautiful car (not so many models of that car in my country) and an old, ugly car .... but i usually drive the last one.
Today ... i’ve been with him in the city and we looked all the time at the beautiful cars.
It was a conversation as ... “My God! Look at that car! .... and that
one! ... and that one!”
We really have lots of beautiful cars around our area, but the funny thing was that all those luxury cars were driven today by very beautiful ladies.
Trying to laugh a little bit of him, i was seriously said to him: “Albert! What are you looking at?! Tell me the truth!”.
He did not understood my question and replies ... “At the car!”
“Are you sure of that?!”
“Yes! Why?!”
“Albert tell me the truth! I believe you were looking at that beautiful lady!”
“No! No! ... i was not doing that!”
He is only 11 and even if their teacher from school told us that speak about sex already ... he did not knew how to react to what i’ve just told him.
And i was continuing.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
70
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
“Albert! You are lying to me! You were looking at that gorgeous
woman! Tell me the truth”
“No! I swear, Daddy!”
He is a very good kid ... and i stoped the joke .. smiling and saying ... “Too bad! I was looking at those ladies ... not at the expensive cars!” Also explained to him ... that we were with the ugly car ... so the ladies will not notice the 2 of us with that car.
Might look like a nonsense ... but i already accepted the fact that i am a sinner.
And ... i should only ask all of you ... “Aren’t we all sinners?!”
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
71
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Many times you ask for another life, but are you really ready for a new one?!
In all the movies or books about the law of attraction, which is a very interesting subject ... you learn that the main secret is ... Ask ... Believe ... Receive.
But the main question is why does not happen right away?!
If we ask and believe .... why don’t we get in the next moment what
we asked for?!
Well ... the answer might be that ... most of the time we ask for nonsense things ... that we don’t really want.
We believe we want a red Porsche ... cause a friend has one ... or a gorgeous mistress cause our neighbour has one ... or a house with a lake view, just cause the uncle has one.
In fact ... we want something that other people have ... just because we don’t have it ... yet.
The moment when that dream becomes true, in a very short time, in many of the cases, it will mean nothing to you.
There are statistic studies about people that bought very expensive cars and it looks like the pleasure of having that car ... it takes only 3 months.
But there is also something else ... why the law of attraction does not work right away ... and i should ask ... are we really ready for another life ... the one that we dream?!
I mean ... the change requires, in most of the cases, to pay a price for it.
Imagine you are an alcoholic and you spend lots of time in the bar with your friends.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
72
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You stay for hours in there, you enjoy the company of your friends ... but you also know that the alcohol will ruin your life ... and you ask for a big change ... a life without alcohol.
That will probably mean ... a life without your actual friends.
Let’s assume you want to lose weight fast ... but you just love eating. Are you ready to forget about all the delicious things you daily taste?! The change will always have its price ... and it will be a non sense to believe you can live between the 2 worlds.
So ... as the law of attraction to happen as you want ... ask yourself
first, those 2 questions:
“Am I really wanting this?!
Am i ready to pay the price for this change?!”
And if is a real Yes ... and you really believe in what you ask to the Universe ... it will just happen.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
73
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Can the profession of the partner influence your happiness?! What is the real connection between the personal and professional life?!
I heard stories ... that in the past women were really attracted by the profession of the man from their lives.
A doctor, a colonel from army, an aviator ... these were jobs that woman just loved.
But i smile when i hear these kinds of stories .... cause it happens i
know doctors, colonels ... aviators etc etc.
They are people with very strong egos ... and i know by such a long time that egocentric persons can’t create happiness around them. But what is the real connection between our professional and personal lives?!
Can the profession have a positive influence into the relationship 2 person have togheter?!
Well ... i am not a therapist, a philosopher or a guru, but i believe is not the profession that defines us as human beings ... but the soul we carry inside of us.
The profession is indeed important as a social status ... but the social status will never bring with itself the happiness.
The happiness in a couple appears when 2 souls are feeling great togheter ... and need nothing else for that ... not even social status, money ... or other things or circumstances.
I am sure that ... still there are many opinions about the importance of those things in our lives, but i still have the power to believe that there must be no real connection between the personal and professional life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
74
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
So ... at the question ... when is a woman happier ... when she has a doctor or a banker?! ... i should answer that the one that knows to better connect to her ... is going to be the one that is winning the battle.
Happiness depends only by our souls ... if we open the heart with love
...cause no matter who we really are as a profession ... life as a couple will be amazing.
You need nothing to be happy togheter ... but good chemistry and good vibes.
Don’t look for other nonsense illusions!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
75
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Hiding who we really are
... just a way of surviving
Have you ever thought why do we choose to hide who we really are?! I mean ... if you are a sensitive person and in the real life you are an engineer ... why you hide the fact that you write poems?!
For my case, only few persons know that i write and in the end i changed the subject, but also the social media pages where i write. So instead of saying to everybody that i write, i decided to hide from anyone this fact.
But what i see funny is that i discovered lots of other people around me that are writing poems and essays.
Writing is a way of trying to define your feelings and in fact the way you see life ... and many of my friends were doing this in different ways.
But still ... we hide those facts.
We don’t feel comfortable about the part from us that is not following the dogmatic way of being.
It looks like we have a side that is breaking all the rules we’ve been taught to respect.
Everything else ... any other kind of action or behavior, that is not like the one the society showed you ... is a non sense.
I a world dominated by money and other different kind of possessions ... writing, painting, studying the stars etc ... will create the imagine of nonsense actions.
We find a trick and name it ... hobby ... but still we hide this artistic or sensitive part.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
76
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
Today ... i believe everything is happing this way ... because we don’t have the guts to be on the real stage of life ... who we really want to be.
The power of dogmatic thinking ... or behavior ... dominates us and expressing our real personality is seen as a total nonsense.
Hiding who we really are becames just a way of surviving ... of still dreaming that one day we will have the courage to say ... “I am not the one that you know ... but if you can look in my soul ... you will meet the real me”.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
77
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
“It was too damm good.
The kind of good thar ruins
you for everyone else”
It happens i know a couple that is very difficult to be understood.
I mean ... i tried, but everything looks like a total nonsense, even to me ... a person that is studying the journey of the human being in the path to nowhere.
The couple i know were very deep in love, but they tried 100 times to get rid one of another.
The only real problem is that the Universe is laughing of the 2 of them and arrange some “accidental” meeting all the time.
They block each other on all the posible channels ... and they succeed to forget one of another ... but when they met again ... everything collapse.
In the next second ... they remembered about the love story that they had ... and the fact that they were soul mates.
They could never be togheter for real ... but they could also not forget about how damm good it was in the story.
And even if everything was for them a pathless path ... each time when they were arranging things to start being a couple in the real life ... something stoped them.
But the nonsense was that the love could not be deleted from their souls.
And even if they decided to stop seeing each other ... no matter what ... in the end ... just accidentally meetings ended making love again and again.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
78
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
It was ... in the story ... and out if the story ... then again in the love story ....
A never ending story ... but a beautiful one.
They not even bothered to unblock each other ... cause they knew that somehow they will meet again ... and for a short time they will become lovers again and again and again. Love stories are difficult to be understood.
Sometimes we see them ... as the secret of a beautiful life ...
sometimes as a total nonsense.
The power of love is stronger than anything else ... cause is so damm good when you are meeting the soul mate ... but that just ruins you for starting any kind of other story.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
79
BEYOND THE NONSENSE … THERE IS A PATH
My vibe ... my actual currency The nonsense why poor can mean rich and rich can mean poor
I’ve just rented last night a house for the workers of a guy that explained me in about one hour how rich he is.
He owns a hotel near the airport, a house by the lake side, that costed about 1 million dollars, expensive cars etc etc.
