The first one will let you believe in magic again ... think that everything is posible ... and that you deserve the life or your dreams.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
64
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Why is she so special to you?!
“She is a wondrous flame,
Carefree and untame.
Dancing in the wind so eloquently.
Burning with passion shining brightly.
Inspired by the stars
Scattered across the space
She made jewels out of scars
That sparkled in her warm embrace”
(Shahara Pereira)
Why someone can be so special to you and no one understands why?! You admire her ... but you actually need her.
You love everything is related to her ... but she is the one that gave you life.
Because of her ... you became the one you wanted to be by such a long time.
But is the whole story about her ... or about you?!
Well ... i think that the whole story of what a relationship means ... changed completely ... and is not what it was before.
Is the same as industry of advertising changed.
In the past the company that was advertising was the hero of the story, but now this company is offering something to a client ... and with that something ... the client is the one that becomes the hero of the story.
So the company is advertising so that the customer should know that he can become ... the special one ... the hero.
Well ... almost the same is happening into a relationship ... cause we need someone to help us become ... that hero from our dreams.
It says that behind any great man, there is a fantastic woman that helped him become what he dreamed to be.
And we all are looking for such a person in our lives.
So ... truth be told ... she is so special cause she made you feel alive and be the one you always wanted to be .... but never dare to believe that this will happen in the real life.
You needed ... a wondrous flame to embrace you ... and give you the courage of acting on the stage of life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
65
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Without her ... you could not be you ... the real one.
And if you really love her ... you will also be the one that gives her life.
Be ... special ... one for another ... and you will have a beautiful life togheter.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
66
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Failing …
“I'm failure ....just failure...
Failed as a sister,
Faifed as a daughter,
Failed as a student,
Failed in love.”
(Arij Emaan)
What if one day ... as a woman ...you see life as that?!
What ... failure ... really is?!
Is it the final result ... or is it just a chapter from the story?!
Why you see only the dark side of your results on the stage of life?!
Why you don’t choose to see that you believed you can do it ... and you tried ...
but you don’t succeeded yet.
Truth be told is that failing is part of the scenario ... and maybe a test that the Universe gave you ... just to see if you really want that story be part of your real life.
You see ... sometimes we just want stupid things ... lots of stupid things ... but should not make sense to have all of them.
And what the Universe does ... is asking us one more time ... do you really want that?!
You fail ... you are disappointed and ask yourself ... do i really need this in my life?
And when it comes about love, you will feel it very, very intense ... with all your being.
It will hurt a lot.
In those moments, of having those deep feelings, you will understand ... if he / she is the path you will need to follow in life.
If you can handle the pain from your soul ... and still go on ... still dreaming of being near that person ... you know the answear.
You see ... failure is just a test ... and the moment when you need to decide if this is what you want in your life ... or not.
The Universe ... asking you one more time ... “are you sure about that?!” ... is painful ... but this how you will know if you really want to pay the price of having that story in your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
67
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Being influenced by others ...
How can close friends or family can influence the dynamic of beautiful relationship
and how they can destroy the love story ... because they actually don’t
understand what love is about.
Different people ... different styles.
But seems we don’t understand this idea very easily.
We see everything that happens only through the vision of what we understood about life till now and we make the mistake of believing we have to influence others also.
Depending of the level of wisdom ... we can influence the others, even if there are people that we love ... in a positive or a negative way.
A mother, for example, can influence her daughter ... but the question is ... the way she sees life is readapted to the the way life is today? Does she really knows what love is about?!
She was young and beautiful 30 years ago and maybe she was not happy at that time.
Now she wants as her daughter to meet the happiness she never had the chance to meet.
She still has the power to believe that happiness exists ... and that her daughter will have this chance.
But does the daughter needs to be independent in her actions and decisions ... or let her be influenced by the way her mother sees the life?!
Truth be told family and close friends influences us a lot, because we care about what they think.
I know that most of them are important to us, but do they really understand what is inside the soul we carry in us?!
Can someone else, except the other person from the love story, sees all the details that defines the love between the 2 souls?!
Can they understand the deepest feelings from the intimate moments of the couple?!
How can you let someone define the path that you should follow, if only the 2 of you know what really is in the connection you have.
You want it or not ... family, close friends and other people you interact with ...
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
68
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
will influence the dynamic of the relationship you have.
Some of the things they will say ... will be true.
Some ... non sense ideas.
But even if it is about good or bad things from the couple, if there is real love between the 2 of you ... don’t let anyone interfere.
Even if some issues will not be ok, with true love you can fix anything ... without the help of anyone else from outside.
If someone knows what it really is between the 2 of you, what kind of energies you are have as a couple ... and where you really dream to be togheter ... is not not someone that is not part of the love story. Don’t let anyone define your fairy tale.
Just enjoy it and maybe you should not let the others know what is really going on ... even if is they are very close persons to you.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
69
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Why she would leave you?!
“She is loyal ...
She'll never leave you for someone else!!
She'll only leave you for herself ...
For her peace, for her sanity,
For her respect ...
For her dignity and survival ...”
(Aroj Emaan)
A woman will never leave if she is happy with you.
As long as you make her feel complete, she will ignore any other things that she does not like so much at you.
You need to let her have her peace, her sanity, her respect, her dignity ... and her
... everything defines her.
You need to let her be ... the one thar she always dreamed to be.
Sounds even as a paradox, but a woman will never leave you for another man.
She will only leave you for ... her survival.
The woman feels the need of touching the infinite ... everyday.
She is loyal ... but you need to understand what the infinite is ... otherwise she will start thinking about being just with ... her.
To be part of her life, you need to understand the mechanisms of her thinking, the way she sees life and feel her soul ... with everything is in there. But all she wants is to be happy ... in the love story with you.
She will stay in there forever, if you have the power to believe in her soul ... but will leave you if you don’t do so ... will leave you for herself ... for her survival.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
70
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
My addiction
“She is my addiction
I love seeing her
Love touching her
Love having her
... but she had enough of being just my muse.”
You see ... there is a real life ... and another fantasy world where your heart can live the perfect love story.
The second one ... the fantasy world is not real.
Is just your mind thinking about it.
Is the desire, but also the power of seeing that desire when you close your mind.
And you want it so much ... that one day it just happens.
You are amazed. She appeared in your life.
But she is not in your real life yet.
Well .... dear friends ... this is the usual scenario of starting an illicit love story,
which usually is also an imposible one.
But is your fantasy and now is real ... but is not happening in the real life ...
which is actually the world you just hate.
You start being in love of what looks like an illusion, but is the love of your life. Love affairs are real ... and there are lots of people that have this strange addiction.
I met once a young beautiful girl, who was addicted to drugs and explained me in lots of details why marihuana is therapeutic ... and i almost believed her. I think that actually taking drugs was her hobby.
And it happens to any other addiction the same.
Loving to go fishing is an addiction.
Going hunting ... the same.
But also being in love ... can be an addiction.
Everything happens in a parallel universe with a lovely human being, that actually cannot be part of your real life.
You love her ... and she is your addiction.
You love seeing her, touching her ... having her.
She is your hobby.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
71
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
... and the one that inspires you ... just as a muse.
But my dear friend ... whoever you are and whoever she is ... one day she will have enough of being just a muse.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
72
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Who fails in the love story
becomes either a poet
... either a writer
I’ve been chatting today with my dear friend Arij Emaan, which is a young, beautiful and very wise philosopher ... about the ones like us that write about love.
And truth be told ... when you start to write about your deepest feelings of love is that you actually try to cure your soul and inspire others to do the same. Everybody speaks about money, cars, politics, economy and others bla, bla, bla ... but they all chat in secret when it comes about their broken souls.
In the beginning, at the first love story, you have a clean soul, which looks like a diamont ... but later on the diamont is broken into very, very small pieces.
I once read a book about diamonds and everything i remember is that a diamond is very difficult to be broken ... but you see ... love can do that.
Maybe you were too profound, or the partner was not ready as the love story to be such an interesting one, or you take the things too seriously ... whatever it is ... you end the story beening a broken heart.
You will never see a poet or a writer who wrote about love ... that lived the perfect case scenario in the love story. Nooo ...
The truth is that the story itself was perfect ... but not in the real world.
It all was a beautiful illusion, a real fantasy ... but everything was happening in a way that made the story an imposible one.
Meeting the soul mate ... being so lucky ... enjoying the beauty of being
togheter ... but also the disillusion of seeing that in the script of the story ... there are no acts telling about living the love story in the real life ... hurts a lot.
Trying to cure the soul, defining the love in so, so many ways and maybe hundreds of pages ... the love itself becomes an obsession and the only reason why the poet / writer is still breathing is that still hopes that through the words ... will live again those fantastic moments of being in the fairy tale.
Being at the spiritual level of understanding, defining and writing about love ...
but also not accepting that the perfect love story cannot be part of the daily real
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
73
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
life ... makes the meaning of the “imposible” ... hurt so much.
Who dreams about love ... wants the perfect love ... but “perfect” and “real” are 2 words that cannot define the same subject.
Failing in a love story ... is only the end of a beautiful chapter of your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
74
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
The destiny and the love stories
“What is the door you want to be opened?!
Both looks the same and have the same number ... but one takes you to happiness and one to the unhappiness.”
You see ... sometimes ... whatever you choose in life ... the path of destiny takes you in the same direction ... no mater what you choose.
And there are times when no matter what we want ... it just does not happen. We even try to force the whole situation and looks like is going to happen ... but in the end we miss everything.
... cause the whole story had another meaning than we thought it will have. What we see today as dramatic, tomorrow we will just understand that is a lesson of life.
And the meaning of the story ... was only to cure the soul of unhappiness ... just by showing that the happiness exists.
Well ... when in the love story ... the destiny appears ... everything change ... in a direction that we will love ... or we will totally disagree.
But the destiny is the voice of the Universe ... and will be difficult to avoid ... the path that we need to follow in life.
The funny part ... for example ... is that sometimes in life we will be in the position of choosing between 2 persons.
One we think that will be the happiness ... and the other one, we already know that is not going to bring us the absolute love that we dreamed so much for ... for such a long time.
