LOVE IS ABOUT
… DARING TO TASTE LIFE
We try to live a life with certain rules and fulfilled with all kinds of dreams that we try to bring from our mind and soul to the real life.
Years are passing and even if you see into the present moment the things you accomplished ... you look into the past and see only the sacrifices had to be done. The art of having success is studied today by millions of people from all around the world ... maybe even by hundreds of millions.
Personal development is paying a lot of attention to this subject, but what people dont understand is that success is about getting what you really love ... and not about what you want only because you copy the success story that is presented today by the modern society.
If you try to mix the concept of love and success in the same time, you will probably get everything you ask from the Universe.
And if try to define the secret story in a different way ... is that success means getting something you love a lot ... and that real love is just about daring to taste life ... no matter what your dreams are.
One day, if it happens to you ... just dare to do it!
And if it is about a love story ... will help you a lot to be who you really want to be!
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
WHAT DID YOU REQUEST
FROM THE UNIVERSE?!
The secret is simple ... ask, believe and then just receive.
But we look at our life and find it boring, unattractive ... with nothing that can bring us joy.
Sometimes we even see that we have everything, but we actually dont have anything at all.
It s like a huge puzzle.
We almost completed it, but still 2 pieces are missing.
We see that and we even see anger in our soul, after realising that everything is almost arranged, but in fact 2 little pieces missing makes everything have no value.
But did you dare to define what is missing?!
Are you sure?!
I am laughing ... cause i am looking in your soul and i see all the doors closed.
You know the truth ... but you hide the truth, even from yourself.
Opening your heart ... will reveal you the secret about what you need.
Yeesss ... you know it ... that love is everything, but you are just too stubborn to admit it.
Meeting that magic person, again and again, makes you fall in love, but also get crazy about that, cause you just cant understand why that soul is bringing you the infinite love ... without giving you in fact anything at all. It s like playing the game of illusions.
You have everything in the real life, but deep inside you ... is just living an empty unhappy soul ... and one day a happy face gives you everything you ever wanted ... touching with love your heart.
The 2 missing pieces of puzzle are just ... meeting that magic person and daring to enjoy the love story
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
LOVE IS ABOUT DREAMING
WITH THE EYES OPENED
When we are children ... we dream a lot.
Then we are stopped by adults and teached that we should not dream so much, cause life is not about dreaming, but about real facts.
We continue doing it for few more years, but in the end we see all around us, that people dont spend so much time dreaming with the eyes opened and actually not even dreaming on something.
The technique the children are using is an excelent one and is used even in the law of attraction, as part of the process.
After years, we totally forget what we did years ago when we were children and dreams are not part of our lives anymore.
But one day .... one strage thing happens ... you meet a lovely person and you
fall in love.
And the magic happens again ... you start dreaming at that person all day long.
You are in another world, not realising all the real facts that goes around you.
You live a fairy tale and you are happy about that.
You are a child again .... and the things goes as that for a while.
But the people around you come again and knocks on your door ... you open and they say to you directly “Life is not about dreaming! Just wake up and live your life having your feet on the ground!”
And is not going to be only one person that tells you this. All your friends, that became over night experts in the philosophy of life ... will tell you the same thing. And it will probably happen the same to your partner.
In one point, one of you will become realistic, and the story ... if you are lucky enough will continue just as a simple relationship.
Daily routines, real facts ... the usual boring life, living on automatic pilot .... no
dreaming ... no mogic.
This is why you need to see that there are moments in life when you can dare to be different ... dream and enjoy the magic of the love story. It s just a choice!
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
THE GHOST FROM YOUR SOUL
In one moment in life, we fall deeply in love.
It s a dream, a fairy tale.
A real love story.
But somehow everything ends and life has to continue.
Then ... later on ... we start a new relationship and we even get marry, have
children and a real life togheter.
And everything goes quite fine.
One day, while driving, we see again that person from the past ... and boom ...
inside us something strange is happening.
Is like seeing a ghost.
The ghost from your soul.
Seeing that smile again is taking you back to the part ... and suddenly you remember again all those feelings you had ... and the love story.
You are ok today ... maybe you are not happy, but of course you are seeing all those love feelings ... and for a second or 2, you dare to dream at the ghost again.
That persons means the fairy tale.
It s hard to forget fantastic moments ... but also difficult to replace a real relationship (or marriage) with a fantasy from the past. You wake up ... and you continue driving.
After a while you dont even remember where to you are driving.
The ghost ruined your day.
Yes ... the truth is that in life, sometimes, we just need to decide if we want live a
real life ... or just a fantasy.
But which one is an illusion?!
Can we name the infinite love story an illusion?!
Yes ... indeed ... we became too philosophical and the meaning of life is to live and enjoy it.
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
THE ABSENSE AND THE PRESENCE OF LUST, CAN DEFINE THE BEST YOUR LOVE STORY
Lust is a psychological force producing intense desire for an object, or circumstance fulfilling the emotion while already having a significant other or amount of the desired object. Lust can take any form such as the lust for sexuality (see libido), love, money, or power.
The absence and the presence of lust, can define the best the story itself and let you understand if you are into a real love story.
Living with the lust desire inside of you or with the absense of lust ... can make you see a relationship from 2 different angles.
You will look at the same couple, but see maybe 2 different couples.
Going from no lust to ... the lust desire can even be defined as an antagonistic path ... but you need to follow the path to clearly understand if you want to spend your life with that partner.
So ... to clarify if it is a real love story you need to see the relationship you have with lust and without lust.
Lust desire can be inside the meaning of love, but real love stories are not defined only by the lust itself.
And on the other hand, will be difficult to see only lust when you are in love. Being fallen in love means to love spending time with that person ... and even seeing that person for a moment can give you an infinite pleasure inside your soul.
Lust can make you feel alive .. but you need to fully connect with the partner to have everything.
When you want someone for real ... you want that person in your life also ... not just in bed.
The lust desire, can help you become closer to the partner, but will not be enough so that you have a fairy tale.
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
PAITING OUR DESIRES … AND MAKE
THEM LOOK AS SOMETHING DIFFERENT
We love the abstract.
It help us hide the truth ... in a philosophical way.
And the funny thing is that everything becomes so abstract, that in one point ...
not even us understand what is really going on and what we really want. Lonely people from all around the world are using dating apps and start one relationship after another.
They wanted a relationship, cause they felt alone and ended having ... all kinds of relationships, maybe even in the same time.
But still the loneliness remains inside themselves.
Just hiding that we want love, looking all the time for something new in our life ...
will not delete or complete the need of love.
We need to learn to express that for clear.
And i even believe is enough with only one person.
A magic connection ( if you are lucky enough to meet that person) with the right partner ... can make you see life as being beautiful and happiness can be inside your soul.
What you need to do?!
Well ... just forget about being abstract.
Just do it, just say it, just enjoy it.
Define what you want, dont mask your desire, dont hide anything at all ...
connect with your partner ... and enjoy the story.
Painting our desires ... and make them look as something different, will stop us from being in the right love story, with the right person at the right time.
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
SILLY THINGS THAT CREATE THE
BEAUTY OF GOOD VIBES
Silly things that create the beauty of good vibes When we are in love we act differently.
We change the way we act on the stage of life ... and can do all the things we never thought we could not do.
Love is the one that changes us and takes us out of our own statistic behavior.
We dont even recognize the person we see in the mirror.
You watch and say: “Look at you ... what is this face?! Is this smile ... kind of a mask?! What the hell is going on ... that you look 10 years younger?!”
And you continue speaking with yourself ... saying you have no clue why you act the way you act, but deep inside you feel it ... but dont want to admit ... you are in love.
Then .... the story reveals to you as a fairy tale.
Being in love gives you the freedom to be whoever you want to be ... act just as you want to act, without thinking too much.
Cause in the end .... you see that love is the magic ... and is nice tasting the
beauty of magic ... the beauty of good vibes.
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
THE STORY THAT NEVER ENDS
What do you think about the story of a man and a woman that stopped and restarted their love relationship about 100 times?! ... and the process continued on and on for a very, very long time?!
They said their story is an imposible one and they decided to brake up, but each time they saw each other something happened and started again being togheter. One of them knew all the time how to repair what was broken. And one day they said it is the final decision to brake up.
But the guy came into a club after her and when they saw each other ... they just started kissing, without coming with an explanation ... not even ... hello.
Do you believe into the magic connection between 2 people into a love story?! Well ... magic exists.
The only trick you need to follow is just let it come into your life.
Then ... if that person likes you and is also in love with you ... everything will be a fairy tale.
Everything comes with the connection between the 2 of you.
If the relationship itself, ends and restarts again ... is nothing toxic ... cause your souls are feeling great togheter ... and this is why you come back togheter all the time.
Ignoring that ... thinking that braking up is the sollution ... is just an illusion.
You will end and restart again.
But you should better define what are the mistakes you usually do, why you have fights all the time ... fix those silly things and then just enjoy the love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
THE ANSWEARS TO ALL HER QUESTIONS
WAS … “I LOVE YOU!”
Once upon a time there was a very determined womam, in love with a strange guy.
He was kind of a writer ... anyway quite lost.
She loved him a lot.
He loved her a lot also.
They were living a love story togheter.
Everything was perfect, except the thing that the guy was travelling on the way to
nowhere ... having no meaning in life.
But he was in love with her.
She wanted as their love story to be into the real life, but he was doing nothing about that.
He was enjoying the love story, till one day when the lady said ... “stop, is enough!”.
But to all her questions about what they should do ... hesitating ... he was answearing all the time ... “I love you!”. He drived her crazy.
But, on the other side, the guy was meditating and he was thinking and thinking
again... and then he wrote a story.
Each time he was doing the same.
He was so deep in love with her, that he just wanted to wait so that he gives her the right answear.
She loved him also ... could not believe in his words, but just loved when he was whispering on her ears “I love you!”.
They lived into the love story for years, cause in the end only beautiful words are important into a love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
THE GREATEST FEELING
Probably the greatest feeling you can see in your soul is that someone really loves you.
But not to know it, but to feel it ... even into the moments when you think that everything is gone.
Real love means connection between the 2 souls.
And sometimes you are so connected that nothing in the world can ruin or just stop the relationship you have.
When you see that there is no need of a proof that the love is there ... that is the real love.
All the doors can be closed ... but you know that you have the key of your partner’s soul.
There is no need to be afraid of.
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